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So yesterday I found out that my boyfriend of five years has been cheating on me once again. This has happened before, he said he wouldn't do it anymore and of course I believed him. That's how much I love this guy. We always get in these situations where I dumb him, but then run right back in his arms. I guess I just need somebody to tell me what to do with this shit because I know it's not healthy on your head. I just wanna know how others have been dealing with shit like this when you love somebody too much to leave.
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I'm in the exact same situation as you my boyfriend cheated on me when I was literally sitting right across the street and it was like my life flash before my eyes my heart was beating out of my chest like I was going to pass out that's the hardest thing to do when someone that you love so much does something devious and evil to you I'm still trying to get over my head in my was about 8 months ago maybe a little less when I bring it up to him he gets upset and tells me I need to let it go and stop holding on to the Past but they never truly understand because it's not happening to them do you have to pray and tell him how you feel about it if he doesn't take that into consideration then you need to leave you have to stay with him until you are strong enough to leave don't leave when someone else tells you to leave because you're going to go back like you continue to do I broke up and gotten back with my boyfriend 5 times this s*** is hard I completely understand where you're coming from I hope this helps you
Replykhloann, Thank you. You helped me realize that it's really the time for me to finally sit down with him and figure out what we're gonna do. Because I really don't wanna wait for the day when he's gonna do it all again and break me down once again.
ReplyYeah that's the best option I'm going to do the same thing with my boyfriend tonight because actually I found out two days ago that when I broke up with him last time and FYI this is my 5th time around that my boyfriend was dealing with a guy like he had sex with a guy I'm not positive of whether or not it happened but I saw an email when he responded to an ad on Craigslist and he was the guy was sending pictures use me and he responded the message went from this height This Tall to send me your address and I'm on my way getting dressed so I'm pretty lost rn
ReplyGirl that’s always hard But to be honest nobody can really tell u what to do u have to feel it in your heart that u truly want to leave .... cause I can tell u ...u don’t deserve that leave him etc and u might take my advice and feel empty or feel like it’s hard to do .... u will know when your truly done only u will know .... cause me I been dealing with almost a similiar situation and it got to a point I stopped telling my friends cause I’m sure they don’t wanna hear me say I’m done for the a millionth time already ....that’s why I joined this website to let it out on here then to my friends and family ...but it’s up to u and u will know when ur truly done ...
ReplyIt is really good advice
ReplyThey don't change!! I was with my ex for 7 years before I split up with him. It's been a year be a half now almost two years since than. Met someone new. My ex kept lying and cheating and I forgiven him more then he deserved. They will never change and continue to do wrong behing you. Do not waste your time. I'm speaking from experience. My ex was abusive,verbally, physically and emotionally. I had to get away and I'm happy I did. Do not let this man of yours, take advantage of you. Leave him, because it will cause more damage than you think. You can't force anyone to change.
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