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Loveless marriage

4 years ago · 3 · marriage, +3


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There's nothing there.

It's all gone.

He and I are polar opposites.

We barely talk and when we do we end up arguing 70% of the time. He's so disrespectful and rude to me. I just want to run away and never come back. He has traumatized me emotionally to the point where I'm scared of ever being in a relationship again.

But I'm stuck, I'm stuck in this relationship because financially speaking I can't afford to take care of myself. I should have listened to my friends and family. I should have finished school, id have a degree and a great paying job by now and I would leave him in a heart beat. This is not the life and definitely not the type of marriage and love I wanted. He's just so abnormal and dysfunctional.

He's selfish and a cavemen.

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  • Mahagauri · 4 years ago

    My story :(. So sorry for you. They keep on using us until they find a new toy again. Such toxic people.

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  • Novni Guest · 4 years ago

    Love right? It's said to be sweet, but only for a while till it grows sour. That taste can be washed away, don't fall for it's gimmicks. Do what you want to do, truthfully what's really stopping you? The pride of marriage, the little ounce of respect that is given to you? Do what needs to be done, it's one life only. Don't waste any time.

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  • Novni Guest · 4 years ago

    To be honest, what's really holding you back. Would you rather be in this position for the rest of your life. Take risks and take chances and you might just hit gold. Good luck :)

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