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Hi! I’m a younger girl. I have this older brother who is about 25 years old, and we are pretty far apart in age. Because of this, I never see him. The last time I saw him was when I was 9 years old. Him and my family got into a big fight, so he left and i haven’t seen him in years now. I really miss him, but he did some horrible things and said horrible things to my favorite person in the world. (My mom.) I have no idea what to do. I’m not old enough to move out or try and find him or anything, but i really miss having an older brother. Should I try and find him when I’m older? I just needed to get this out. Thank you so much and please be polite when responding. I really miss my brother, but I don’t want to betray my family.
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I don't know how long it's been since you were 9 years old, but I wonder if what you miss is the idea of an older brother more than you miss the person who did and said horrible things. That said, maybe there's a trusted adult in the family that you could ask to help you.
ReplyThank you! I never thought of it like that. I think you’re right.
ReplyIt's ok for you to still love your brother. So you should definitely reach out to him later if you want to. You won't be betraying anyone. Your mom probably still loves him and misses him too. Have you tried talking to her about it?
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