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A Helping Hand for Those in Need
By Novni Community Member
Not too long ago I reached out a helping hand for a friend in need. They didn't want to remain on this earth any longer. It makes me sad to see people with such bright futures feeling so worthless and helpless. This is why I am writing this. I have seen other posts here on this website about other people who feel the same way and I needed to write this for them.
There's so much that you could achieve within your life and it's wrong that something or somebody should stop you or make you feel as though you should cut your life short.
The first thing is that you have everything to live for. I realize this sounds very cliché, but it is entirely true. I'd be lying if I told you that you could change the past or click your fingers and all the troubles will go away, because that just isn't true. But what you do have is time.
At the moment you may be feeling weak, but you as a person are not weak. You are strong, loved, and you will get through this. When I helped my friend their foundation was weak. Something that has happened in your past has likely damaged the foundations of your being too. Believe it or not, there are people out there that want to support you and help you get through it though. If your foundations are fixed or at least, supported, you will be able to stand strong. Don't allow your last second on Earth to be full of regret and helplessness, because it doesn't have to be.
Secondly, you might not realize it, but there are people out there that really do love and care about you. Now you might be thinking that there is nobody there for you, but I can guarantee that you will make somebody smile when you walk in the room and they would love nothing more than to see you live your life to the fullest with a smile on your face and a spring in your step. You might not even know them that well or perhaps not even at all, but they exist and they do care about you. I care about you deeply, and I don't even know you. I want you to live and not just live, but thrive.
Thirdly, you matter. It would be a complete loss to the world if you were not here. Don't ever believe that your problems aren't as important or as significant as somebody else, because they are. There is somebody out there who will offer a helping hand to you even if they have never met you. It's okay to talk about your problems to people; it's often one of the few ways of resolving them and there's people out there that are willing to listen.
I'm not writing this to be noticed in any kind of way. In fact, it's the opposite of that. I don't want any kind of name attached to this post, because I am speaking on behalf of any decent human being. If there's one thing to take from this post it is that we're here for you and we want to listen. Please help to get this message out to as many people as possible because nobody deserves to feel like this. If you're reading and feeling this way, I hope this helped you feel loved and heard.
Stay strong <3