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Hey,
I know this is going to be hard for you to understand but try to see it from my point of view. Read all the way through before interrupting, please, it's hard enough to talk about. Just read and we can discuss later.
My body is not how it should be. It never has been. Not since puberty anyways. How did I know? You gave me a training bra and gave me the run down of what my future body will have to deal with. None of it ever felt right.
It didn't feel right to go with you and your friends to that bra convention.
It didn't feel right for me to be a part of the "women issues" conversations.
It didn't ever feel right to call myself a girl.
No, it has nothing to do with misogyny, internalized or other. You know how gay I am. And side-note, no I am not a lesbian. I say I'm gay because how else am I going to identify. Being agender is a completely different rodeo and it's just easier to say I'm gay.
Anyways, back to the point.
Top surgery needs to happen.
Mentally and physically, I cannot wait another 4 years.
My ribs hurt, my dysphoria is at an all time high, I can't function. I can't even sleep without a shirt anymore because it sends me into a spiral. My depression and anxiety is being pushed up and I really don't need more to add to those 2.
It's not about you, it's not an attack on you, it has nothing to DO with you really other than supporting your kid.
That's it.
I just need your support.
Not approval, it's going to happen no matter what you say. More so your car and some help to care for the incisions after surgery.
I don't know why you think it's a personal attack. Boobs are boobs and they don't belong on me. It has everything to do with the fact that every time I look in the mirror, they're just there and it's not me.
I really don't expect you to understand at all. I just need you to know what's happening so when I ask for your help to care for me, you say yes.
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