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When people start crossing your boundaries by going to the extent to start invading your privacy and deliberately prying into your affairs without your acknowledgement, this is where problems begin. This doesn't only happen by those who are clearly diagnosed narcissists, ASPD and a few other personality disorders who cross these boundaries.
I really don't see a reason to intentionally pry and invade another person's privacy, unless there's absolute vaild reasons for it. Usually those reasons are substantial where you're under investigation for something severe and law enforcement is involved.
Why risk getting yourself in trouble with the law, depending on where you are and think the person wouldn't find out you're purposely digging into their business.
It's crazy to me how basic shit like respecting people's privacy goes right over some people's heads. It's not very hard to grasp the concept of respecting a person's right to privacy, as you would want for yourself, right? The majority of the time, i truly believe that the only reason certain people want to know your business, who pry and invade your privacy for information is only for malicious purposes.
It's clearly in bad faith that they want to know shit on your life, because there is no fucking way that they're digging into your affairs in attempts to "helping you" but you just so happen to not know about it and it doesn't make any fucking sense.
No no, people who do this shit aren't trying to protect you but exploit you and do harm towards you. They may try to gather info in order to humiliate, sabotage, shame and ruin alot of other aspects within your life. You could be minding your own business, living your life and not even be doing anything inherently wrong! What i mean you're actions isn't actually hurting anyone and impacting anyone's life in any harmful way!!! This is where it's totally screwed up because you're not doing anything to cause any harm to anybody, especially when you aren't. Yet, these people exploit you and paint this narrative about you to only further their own hidden agenda.
It's not okay. Frankly, it's fucked up and it will never be within good reasons or coming from a good place. There is no justifying such reasons, when there really isn't one and some people are looking to start trouble.
The very fact that it's not very hard to ask directly about something, if you have some kind of connection towards a person and it blows my mind when certain people with enough common sense don't do this.
If you want to know something or someone then directly contact them or the source. This type of bullshit shouldn't be tolerated and is undeniably wrong. There's boundaries and this is just one of many not to cross.
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