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Honestly, my boyfriend used to talk about her a lot more than he does recently. I know I really shouldn't worry, because he always reassures me that it has always been me that he's in love with. But in reality, it's not all about who he's in love with that bothers me. I trust him. It's not how often he talks to her.
It's how often he talks *about* her.
Like I said, he used to bring up her name at almost every single conversation, may it be the most random thing. I had noodles that day? Guess who cooked pho! My school had a petting zoo and I took photos of a rabbit? Oh, maybe he'll send my bunny pictures to her, because we both know how much she loves her rabbit. Sometimes he wakes up to selfies or random pictures of her in his messages that literally have no value to either one of us. Sometimes she sends him videos of herself petting her precious pet. It got the point where me and him would be watching something together, and she would message him and he would reply in the middle of our movie/series, constantly! I bothered me so much.
So much to the point, where whenever he merely mentions her name, I lose interest in everything and stop talking for the rest of the day.
I told him how I felt. I told him how uncomfortable it made me feel. And did he listen? Of course he did. That's just the type of guy he is. He told me he'll monitor it from now on and he sincerely apologized to me.
But it doesn't stop him from mentioning her name, still. He mentions her probably once a day. Today, he mentioned her twice. I remember once, I was visibly and verbally upset about school. I was complaining about my workload. I was complaining about how everyone underestimates my major and thinks it's "easy" (I study music.) I asked him what he's been up to while I'm ranting, and he replies, "I'm watching a bunny ride a horse. (She) is also upset. Periods suck," and I simply said, "School sucks." And I never said a word after that. I played video games while he comforted her instead. Oh, btw, did I mention that he knows her cycle?
I've been upset for the past five hours. He fell asleep without even asking. I'm sure he knows, though. I just wish I'd never hear him mutter her name ever again...
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