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Recently I feel as if I don't belong anywhere. The friends I hold closest to me seem to be straying away from me but it could also be my fault as I think I may be pushing them away due to my own insecurities. I just really rely on my friends to give me the confidence boosts I need to get me through every day because recently every day is another challenge. I constantly feel inferior and I constantly feel like everyone could easily replace me. These fears lead to me to be easily jealous of people who I feel may be taking the people I love away from me, and I can get extremely resentful. Even worse I feel like I can't talk about it because I'm afraid I'd do more harm than good so I'm constantly living with this awful feeling that is similar to nausea. I honestly just want to feel loved for once but no matter what anyone says to me I cannot for the life of me actually feel their love for me... it's like their words hit a big wall that's blocking me. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm tired of feeling so alone and I don't know how to get that wall down.
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Hi :)
I wanted to tell you that I know exactly how you feel cause sometimes I feel the exact same! Firstly you have to remember that nobody's alone in this world! Despite your insecurities your friends surely love you (on condition they're true friends) and you're not a problem to them at all. Secondly, you have to think as if this friendship is true. I mean, if they constantly make you feel like you're inferior and they enhance your insecurities, you need to change the people you've chosen to be around. You know sometimes it's not your fault if people don't appreciate who they have by their side. Of course, they might tell you the truth but when they don't try to support you anymore and prefer to show indifference they're not worth hanging with them!
After all, my advice is to keep some distance from them and try find people with whom you'd feel comfortable to express yourself and will accept you for who you are! Toxic people will maintain your insecurities and bad feelings, but we live once and it's not worth wasting our time with such people
Hope I've helped someway :)
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