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I wish my social skills were better. I have a hard time expressing myself to women and I never say the right things
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talking to women does not always come easy and it doesn't mean that your social skills are bad either, I cannot give advice about how to express yourself to a woman or women because honestly I don't quite know either , but maybe if you asked a close friend that you feel comfortable talking to about this you might get good advice to use.
ReplyMy father says I lack confidence, but I can approach women. It's just that I don't know the right things to say. My game is weak and I'm bad at reading women. Being in your 20's without having any women to contact on the weekend sucks.
ReplyWhat do you say that's never the "right" thing? I need examples! Women aren't mysterious beasts. Most of us are just as clueless. Say she has nice eyes. Say what you think or feel. Say you saw a good movie/read a good book/discovered a good coffee place. And when you say you'll do something (message her, call her), follow through. That's really it. In my experience, a lot of ladies find awkward/shy guys adorable/sexy.
ReplyNot that you're awkward or shy. But why not play it up ;)
ReplyI'm the guy who created the post. An example would be on social media. a girl might write a post and I'll send her a message. I usually don't use pick up lines because it's corny and not, for example, I'll message a woman in response to her post. she'll ask me whats up. I'll tell her what I'm doing then I'll ask her a question and then the conversation dies. another example is I'll be at a bar and a woman would come up to me I'll say something and she'll leave. when I say social skills I'm refering to my game talkking to woman and connecting to them doesn't come natural to me.
ReplyHeres an example. I told a girl on a social media site. "Hey, I'm interested in some conversation." She had a post saying she wanted a penetrating conversation. She responds "Whats up." I had to go do something. I eventually respond. I just got home. I am now chilling. she didn't respond back to me. The conversation ends. so now I'm thinking either I'm bored or I didn't say what she wanted to hear.
ReplyThe best thing you could do (in my opinion) is email. You can take the time to say something clever or sweet without seeming awkward.
ReplyStop trying to say the right things!
Most women do not want lines!
They just want genuine !
They want you to share things about yourself.
Even if it is geeky!
When you share your real self then you will find someone who likes you for you!
If someone does not like you for the real you then you wouldn't want that person!
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