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I'm grateful for having a supportive boyfriend but he doesn't support my clothing. I find it unfair that he gets mad at me for wearing a tank top, shorts and anything that shows skin a little too much while his cousins wears bralette to the streets. I'm an insecure girl and I want to wear other clothing but people hates my outfit. they're repetitive but it's because my family and I are going through financial difficulties...
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You said it yourself. Clothes that show a little too much skin. He doesn't like it when you look cheap. Which has nothing to do with how many outfits one owns.
Replythat was uncalled for. to the writer of this message: you aren't cheap, no matter how much financial difficulty you're going through, or what you choose to wear. if your boyfriend is being cruel to you, that's not okay. if he's just expressing his opinions, however, you need to share with him why you choose to wear what you want to wear, and explain that his choice of clothing is his own but he cannot choose or dictate what you wear. ok? so please disregard this person's comment, they're being rude and insensitive
ReplyNothing rude or insensitive about it. Unlike your judgment of what someone else had to say.
Reply"anything that shows a little too much" usually does look rather cheap, yeah. no wonder he doesn't like it. Of course he doesn't care what his cousin wears- she's not his girlfriend.
ReplyHe sounds controlling, you should be able to feel free and express yourself through your clothing! don’t get locked away in “love” be the you that you want to be
ReplyEveryone goes through tough times. Wear what you feel most comfortable in. Your bf shouldn't bash you for that. He doesn't demand you. You can't always do things to please other people bc then you aren't going to be happy. Make sure you're relationship isn't causing more stress and arguments than happy moments. And maybe you and your bf could talk and meet in the middle about your outfit decisions.
ReplyI don't think a boyfriend gets to tell her girl how she should dress. Of course he can tell his opinion but if he can't handle that you want to wear a goddamn tank top, it feels like he's the insecure one. I don't know of course, what do you mean exactly by "a little too much skin"? I mean anyone wears what they want as long as they like it, but do you think your clothing is actually something that's a little, well, not tasteful or can be considered slutty? Because than it's a bit understandable why he calls you out on it, but if you feel good in those clothes, than I guess you shouldn't bury them just because of him. But you know, people judge you based on your appearance, so when you choose an outfit, you also choose how the world sees you.
ReplyIt's 2018 wear whatever you want, your boyfriend is trying to control you dont let him just stay strong and if he won't accept it then it's not meant to be
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