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Okay so, I recently lost my mom. And I had a really close friend that I told everything too and asked for advice on what I should do about this or that. But during the time where my mom was fighting for her life, my friends recently stopped talking to me and just started to ignore me. And saying she was busy doing stuff, but when she said that, she posted stuff with other friends and saying stuff.
I later found out she started spreading rumours about me. Saying that i barely knew my mom and that I shouldn't be going through this. Or saying that I'm some fake person. And all I do is care about myself, which in my opinion, I don't. I always put others first. But for her to do that, I don't know what I did. I was always there for her, I helped her through tough times. I took her out. I tried my hardest to be a good friend. But in the end, she just took advantage of it. And now, shes telling our friend group, that If they want to be friends with her, they have to stop being friends with me. I don't know what I did for her to act like this. What should I do? Because I tried apologizing and asking what I did but she just ignored me. I'm confused and lost with what I did. Any advice?
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She’s is not a real friend and neither one of those other friends are real friends either. What she did was very childish and not worth your time. Especially one you are going through something as hard as losin someone you love.
ReplyThank you, so should I just let her be and not worry about her?
ReplyIf you guys were close I would try and have an adult conversation with her and tell her how that made you feel and how she took advantage of your feelings and trust. It is a better way than completely ignoring the situation and ghosting her. At least let her now how that made you feel and then just worry about you and the friends that truly stuck by your side. She is definitely not worth it.
ReplyI did, I tried but all she did was say it's okay. And now, she's doing all this stuff she promised she wouldn't do.
ReplyThen she has some problems herself. Don’t worry about it. Focus on the future without any means of her in it. You only live once. Don’t let someone like that control your thoughts. Take a minute, go for a run or exercise, do something ou love doing. Get her off your mind. You need positive vibes more than ever right now.
ReplyThe same thing sort of happened with my ex best friend and I. Turns out she was just jealous and annoyed with our friendship. She is probably jealous of the attention or something of the sort. Btw my ex best friend made jokes and told everyone about a disease that I had and still have btw. Try and forget her, she is a backstabber. I am very sorry for your loss, condolences.
ReplyThank you. And I'm sorry what happened. You deserve the best. I'll try my best.
ReplyIts hard I know, but you eventually get over it. Try meeting new people, I became best friends with people I didn't even think of talking to before! And meeting new people, its just a great feeling. Good luck you also deserve the best :)
ReplyFirst, I am very very sorry you have to go through this.
Do not cultivate resentment in your heart. Use this hardship to become brighter person.
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