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Im so confused if i should believe the one im dating's words, the advice from my friends or the things i think. Because if its from you, yes you tell me a million times that your serious, that you wont leave and youll prove it to me. But if it comes to my friends, they say you play with people's feelings, you have multiple people you like and you easily fall for someone. Sometime i dont know what to believe anymore, which is real and not. Yes, i know him better, does that mean i know more. Or am i just blinded by love so my friends are the best to listen to. Or should i wait for it to unfold and see.
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i believe that you should take a little from all three, your partner is someone who you trust and care for, your friends are people that you get along with and can be told anything without harsh judgment. yourself is a little tricky but if you change your outlook on life then it might just work
ReplyHonestly, from experience, friends can turn their backs in a split second. And people change. Maybe what your friends are saying is how that guy was in the past. But he could've changed, if you haven't had any problems yet then believe him. You will be able to tell if something starts to happen just by his actions or if how he acts towards you changes.
ReplyI think you should not press the subject too harshly. If you keep nagging him about leaving you, he probably will just because you annoy him. Let things run their course. Don't rush into this with high expectations. It's a fairly new relationship, and if you want it to last then you need to be gentle. Don't cause a fight with him because of his history, or out of fear. Just be yourself, and if he loves you he will stay. If he can't picture a future then he will leave, but that's okay. Don't be afraid because it does happen. Just enjoy the time spent, the memories you shared, and then move on. Don't play head games with each other or it won't last.
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