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I'd just done the first of my second year uni exams, it was my friends birthday and he was having pre drinks at his before we went to the club. All was going swimmingly, everyone was having a great time, until I wasn't. I will admit straight off the bat that I had had too much to drink. A friend of a friend had been getting with me all night and then I have been told he walked me home.
My next memory is being aggressively mounted in an unknown location. I begged him to stop with every ounce of my being. In response he strangled me to the point where I could no longer breath, he'd let go for a brief second where id have to reassure him that I would stay, fearing for my life. He did everything imaginable to me, while continuing to strangle me until eventually I passed out. I woke up without my ID, my keys or my dignity. I tried to get dressed, but he emerged from the bathroom again and tried to start all over, my underwear had been ripped in two. Eventually he must have figured I was no longer worth his time, and he let me go, as I scramble on the floor for my keys, he pulls them out of his pocket. He has had them the whole time, I still do not have my ID, with my address on it, but I was not prepared to ask for it. I jokingly took them and darted out, of what I found out to be a hotel, just doors away from where I live. He followed me down the stairs, and as we exited the building, he nonchalantly lit up a cigarette and watched as I staggered down the street. I collapsed into my bed at 8 o'clock in the morning. At a loss from how I could have gone from having a great night, being walked home, to being strangled unconscious and raped repeatedly.
If you take anything from this, let it be this: know you drinking limits, if you are ever worried about your safety while in a club, go to a member of staff or a friend you know will be able to help. Your safety is paramount. Drinking can be fun don't get me wrong, but this is an example of how getting too drunk and being careless can get you into a very dangerous situation.
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Hey,
I think it's really brave you wrote about your feelings. I know every person should know thier drinking limits but what happened to you is none of your fault. All you desired for was an amazing night. Don't ever feel alone or stranger in this world. World is bigger than you could imagine with people who are always there to give love.
I salute your bravery and courage.
With love and respect
Unknown person from unknown place
ReplyI hope you went to police or at least make this guy pay for his crime somehow. I can not believe that he can walk away just because you had too much drink. Lot of people drink too much that does not give anyone right to do anything bad to them. I hope told someone so that he can not hurt anyone ever again.
Replyyour last paragraph is very true but don't forget that when people-and especially college students- are drinking, they no longer can accurately assess their limits. this is one reason why sexual assault is so common in college campuses.
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