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You think you are friends with someone, you genuinly like to spend time with them, and they like to spend time with you aswell. Then, as soon as they reilize that it will "only" be friendship, they become cold and distant, and they disappear.
It's okay if you treat someone who you fell in love with differently than a friend, but why do they need to make it seem as if it was a burden to even just talk?! Like all the time we spent together meant nothing at all. Well guess what? It did! We were friends and it was a digusting move to cut me off just because you felt that there won't be a relationship! Because there was, it was a friendship! Even if I did not want to have a romantic relationship, you were still important to me. I loved you and I trusted you. You meant a lot to me. Why is that it seems in our society degrading, if I say " I loved you as a friend"? It was friendship and it was true love aswell, just not in the romantic sense.
I am hurt, confused and disappointed.
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I an on the other side of the equation. Give. Your friend some slack. They developed feelings for you And they can just be turned off. Your friend needs some time to heal and some space to heal from the rejection. ( And no judgement on you. Sometimes things don't happen)
In my case I am even called his best friend and he is dating someone else. It kills me every time I see them and hear about their fights. I chose to remain as a friend but it's not easy emotionally.
You friend is still there and a few weeks without contact you maybe able to be friends like before, or maybe tyour friend won't be able to handle it but don't be angry with your friend
ReplyIf your friend felt like he wanted more than friendship and you told him or let him know in another way that all you saw of him was being just friends then I commend him for cutting ties because it wouldn't be healthy for him to be pretending to be just friends with you when he obviously wanted more. I've been in the same situation as this friend of yours, and I had to say to the other person something along the lines of "I am not wanting to only be friends with you and for that to be all it is, I wish you the best and in the future if you decide that you want to see if there's something more to this then by all me you're welcome to contact me and if I'm free we can see what happens, but as it stands I can't be in a situation where I'm wanting more than friendship with someone who doesn't want the same"
It's hard to do but ultimately the more healthy thing to do.
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