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So you’re about the heat the corniess story you’ve ever heard. Junior year of high school was great. I had an awesome friend group that did adventerous things every weekend. We were the closest group of friends, and we ended up becoming friends with this group of girls. Out of these group was this one awesome girl. Gorgeous eyes, bubbly personality, and just a great person overall.
It was time for junior prom and of course I wanted to ask this girl. I planned a great prom-posal where I post it-noted her car outside her dance studio saying “PROM?” Out of 50 girls, she was the last one to come out and of course all the girls were amazed by the cuteness. As a friend and I were hiding just down the parking lot row, she came out and saw it. We awkwardly strolled over and she gave me and a hug, but never really gave an answer. That night I came out to my car and she post-it noted my car with “YES.” We went to prom and at first it was fun, but also kind of awkward, it was junior year....
I ended up getting food poisoning from the food, and was never able to dance. It didn’t go well and we stopped talking.
Fast forward to senior year, where one day we ended up talking and things started going well. I brought her on dates and we really hit it off. It was amazing, and it was also, again, right before senior prom. Of course this time I asked her again and she said yes! And then the day after, she asked me to her senior prom! (She went to a rival high school)
We went to senior prom together and the vacation houses together afterwards and it was the best time I’ve ever had. We danced like fools and were extremely romantic the whole entire night. We were so close and we weren’t even officially “dating.” These amazing adventures continued into the summer and I ended up asking her out on June 21st. She said yes and we were officially dating. It was honestly the best summer I’ve ever had. We did different things every day and really lived life. But there was one big elephant in the room, I was going to college 14 hours away from her....
We, of course, decided to stick together and see it through. We got through freshman year with our ups and downs, but we were always excited to see each other when we could. Sophomore year came around and things got more difficult. We were fighting more about stupid stuff and it was hard. After months of thinking, I ended up breaking up with her during spring break of sophomore year. It was the hardest thing ever and going back to school was harder. I missed her so much.
Life went on, I got great internship offers, and traveled all over the US for my various internships. I finished at the top of my class, had a few girlfriends for brief periods, and made great friends. But I always thought about her. I saw her maybe 3 times from our break up until college graduation. Barely a word passed between us.
Post graduation, I get a great job and end up moving 4 hours from home, but it turns out that I go home quite a lot for family matters. I started to see her again because her friend started dating my best friend, but she has a new boyfriend now. She drunk texted me twice, but I also respected the fact that she had someone else. We were also at a party together and ended up sitting on the couch just talking for an hour or so about anything and everything. It was just like old times except kind of better.
I CANNOT stop thinking about her. I’m about to travel home yet again this weekend and I know I’ll see her out. It’s been 6 years since we first met, and my feelings have stayed the complete same. I know that there will always be something there, but I have no idea what to do with myself when I’m out at the same place with her. I can’t seem to not be near her and we always end up talking at least for a little. We end up flirting here and there a little, but we both never let it go anywhere since she and I both know she has a boyfriend.
I just wanted to share this story and see if anyone else has ever experienced this. I’ve dated multiple girls since her and she’s the only one I always come back to think about.
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Nice story. Good luck to you both I guess. Try not to sleep with her while she's in a relation cause I would be heartbroken just like her boyfriend (I hate cheating lol).
I'll tell you a little story in return. It's a stupid one but I remembered it a couple years ago and I was fascinated by it.
Throughout my entire life I had a swinging confidence level.
Some years I was the coolest most confident guy in school and all the girls had a crush on me. Other years I was the shiest most awkward kid in school and I couldn't eve talk to girls.
7th grade was the latter. I was super shy and awkward. I felt so out of my comfort zone throughout the entire year and I was essentially a loser.
So one day the teacher was changing our seats cause she didn't want friends to sit next to each other and get distracted. Somehow during this process, some kind of "miracle" made the teacher move me right next to the girl I had a crush on from my class.
I sat next to her, said hi and tried to be normal. I think I only talked to her once or twice during the class, but it was regarding class, like borrowing a pencil or asking about homework.
So sometime during the class I wanted to ask her about something cause I had a crush on her and I was trying to talk to her as much as I could.
So I went ahead and started asking her about whatever it was I thought about, then she suddenly looked at me and said "Shut up. Don't you talk to me ever again!".
That was such a shocker to 12 year old me. Maybe that's why I forgot about this until a couple years ago.
Now I look at this story and laugh, but I still wonder what made her act so mean towards me. Either way I had to spend a few more days or maybe even weeks sitting next to her during that class, which must've been very awkward, but I have no recollection of it so I could've been okay.
:)
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