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Me and my mom have not gotten along since i was like 16, i partially think its because we`re so much alike i just cant quite put my finger on it . the other day we got into a fight because i told her that i didnt want her speaking badly about my dad. shes driven me to having anxiety and depression shes the main reason that i go see a therapist . shes literally driven me to insanity and im at the border or hatred and resentment with her. we fight like every other say i guess what im asking is how should i talk to her because i wanna resolve the issue but she gets really defensive if she feels attacked and that makes me not even wanna speak to her most days and i think it should be like that between and mom and a daughter.
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She’s your mother so at the end of the day she just wants the best for you. Try talking to her calmly and have patience. Also try to see it from her point of view. Try understanding her and her feelings so you guys can get along better
Replythanks ill try that
ReplyIt's natural for mothers to speak ill about their former spouses. She is trying to turn you against him and that's her goal. At the end of the day she is your mother and he is your father. I wouldn't say choose a side but choose what is wise.
ReplyI understand you and I think the best thing is to talk to her calmly. Ask her to sit in the living room and calmly ask her to not talk when you talk and from there you guys can sort your differences and why you guys hate each other because at the end of the day she's your mom.
ReplyEveryone is saying to speak to your mom calmly, no doubt on that, but that was plan a. If your Mom doesn't agree in any situation then gather facts and proof and use/show/tell those to your mom, but not in a loud/angry tone because I don't know about your mom, but my mom started spreading rumours that I am always on my Dad's side and against her. But don't fall into emotions, what you know is right is right. I am 15 and my parents have been fighting ever since I was born, and my Mom is the one who keeps blaming my Dad for everything, but I still talk to my mom in a calm tone WITH facts. (I usually lose my temper but I think through a cool mind)
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