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I ghosted all of my friends a few days ago. It hurts a bit, but at the same time I haven't felt this free in months. I know it's my fault that I throw in so much emotions in my interpersonal relationships. I know that giving them all I have doesn't guarantee I'll get anything back. Wanting reciprocation shouldn't be why you care for people. I'm clear on the fact I made many mistakes. But I couldn't bear it. I had never felt so alone among others in years. And somehow loneliness feels less daunting when it's an intentional choice rather than consequential. I'm sorry. But let's be honest, we wouldn't have spoken in a few months time anyways. I lost myself trying to get you to care. I did everything I was capable of, I said everything I thought you needed and it wasn't enough. It was never going to be enough.
Now I feel cleansed. I'm no longer the bitter creature who fought for your approval till I burned out in pain and disappointment. I hope you're doing well. I just can't handle putting so much of myself in your hands, defining myself by your needs. Best of luck to you all.
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ReplyIf they were being toxic to you, you did well in dumping them. There are billions of people out there. Find those who bring you forward, as you also bring them forward. They are out there, you will find yourselves.
ReplyThis sounds very similar to my own situation. I think you did the right thing. It sounds like you needed time alone to think and be your own influencer (the only person in your vicinity that influences you). I hope you find that you can rely on yourself and care for yourself as much as you cared for those people.
ReplyGhosting is the coward's way out. TELL the people that you don't want them anymore.
ReplyLet the friends or ex-friends know that you don't want to be in their lives anymore. You want the upper hand by ghosting. You think it makes them wonder about you and why you did it. Fucking get a backbone and TELL them why you are ending things.
ReplyGhosting..if they are liers thst dont want do honest talk..makes sense
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