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Everyone says that the worst part of breaking up with someone is as you're doing it. The action of telling the person you want to end your relationship and how hard it is but they're wrong. The hardest part is after you do and you regret it. You think back to how easy it was when it was just you and him talking and laughing. You start to blame yourself for causing that person pain for something that was done out of fear or nervousness.
Whenever I try to explain why I broke up with my boyfriend, my answer always seems fake or not a good enough reason. And the people I tell it to look at me like I was being selfish or overdramatic. They don't understand that in order for me to love him I have to love myself. But I don't. I don't love myself. But I can't tell them that. They won't believe me and they'll talk about me behind my back and I can't handle it. I just hate feeling all this regret and guilt for doing something that I truly believe is good for me.
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Try to detached yourself emotionally. Think of all the bad they did and you'll start to resent them. It worked for me with an ex I was with for a very long time before I met someone new. However my ex was really messed up and did abusive things. It made it easier for me to lose feelings very quickly. I was already preparing myself for 2 months to break it off. One day we got into a horrible fight and that's when I said forget it. Its over. After awhile met someone new. I was better off.
You need to let go if you want to get better.
ReplyWell that's the thing, he didn't do anything wrong and that's why I feel guilty.
ReplyOk. Self love starts with self care, so are you brushing your teeth and washing your body? Good. Next is a hobby, then social circles and work, finally romance. Gotta work the first steps to get to the last ones. Keep a journal or diary and be BRUTALLY honest about everything there. Keep it confidential. You are young, dont let it get u down too much.
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