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I'm so tired of job hunting.
My family said that i just not trying hard enough or i have no qualifications for any job that i applied. And i've been doing it for almost a year.
i'm scared if i wil become a real jobless adult. And my family didn't help it by rubbing my failure onto my face. I'm so tired.
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Yeah, it can take a lot of time, energy, and effort to find the right job. Better keep trying or you will become that jobless adult that you're scared of being. Maybe you're applying to the wrong kind of jobs or maybe you need to build your qualifications.
ReplyYou and I are in the same boat. So far I’ve had a different mind set and things are starting to change for the better. The advice I received was to find something you’d like to do and work hard at knowing all you can know about it. The example was if I wanted to be an exercise instructor, then I should go to my local gym. I should check it out and make friends with those who work there. Take an aerobics class and see how they teach and give instruction. I should learn how to be assertive and what are the best ways for me to instruct others in a way they can clearly follow. I should take classes on fitness and nutrition. Then once I make the qualifications to be an instructor there I should ask for an application. It should be easier if I already made friends who work there and we probably hung out a few times. They should be glad to give me an application and also recommend me to their manager. In my own experience I’ve only been looking for volunteer work. I legitimately want to help others and not expect anything in return. So far this has helped me feel better and not so much as a failure. The fact that I have not been so focused on finding a particular job has also opened up a few job opportunities for me. I am more selective on what I would like to do instead of being desperate for a job. I’m going to apply and hopefully something works out. I hope this has been helpful for you and for what it’s worth... I believe in you. I believe you can find something you’ll actually enjoy doing and make a difference. There’s so much more to you than you know. So get out there and try new things and see how you can be the difference.
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