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I have a bf (for two months) we got together like 12 days after we met only (SOOO RUSHED lol), he lives kind of far away and we have never met.
I am starting to lose my feelings for him and at the same time I'm getting feelings for another guy.
This guy lives close to me and I have known him since 2016/2017, (we we talked today fyi, and literally have never laughed so hard hahahah). We have the same humor and personality. I LOVE HIS PERSONALITY!
My boyfriend has some bad traits, he does not like immigrants :( don't even think he respects them or anything, so from what I know he is probably a racist, and I am nothing like that, hate that about him. I also think he objectifies girls?? dunno.
I know it is going to end between my bf and me. He said he needs a day to think or something, but if he wants to stay with me, I don't think that I do.
Ugh, I am very bad at explaining but yeah, if I wasn't so lazy u would to write u would get it ahah. But yeah, don't know what to do, ugh anxiety.
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I believe you should always follow your heart and be honest and have courage. From the way you are describing your boyfriend, he doesn’t sound like a nice guy and you deserve better. You have a great connection with this other guy. Close your eyes and imagine you walking on the beach, who is walking with you ! Who do you see yourself with ? At the end of the day , no one can tell you who yo choose, it is only your business and your decision. Just remember don’t stay with someone because it is easier or you feel bad. Please follow your heart and believe in yourself.
ReplyThank you <33
ReplyHey, I don't think you'll ever see this since its been 5 almost 6 years. But I still think about the beach scenario whenever i have doubts (not always doubts just in general as well). In 2019 I got together with the other guy that I had a great connection with and we're still together! The 14th of June we will celebrate 5 years together! Thanks for helping me all those years ago, and know you made a difference <3
ReplyYes, you rushed. I suppose you went off a crush before you truly got to know and understand him. Try being honest and clear and avoid a bad argument if possible because that only ever makes it uncomfortable. You only knew each other for twelve days and hopefully he will see the rush too.
As for this other guy, try not to jump from one ship straight to the other. But, it is totally ok to have feeling for someone. Out of respect for your current boyfriend, maybe wait a couple weeks before seeing where things will go with this new guy.
Listen to yourself.
wilting
ReplyThank you <3 great advice
ReplyNever a problem.
wilting
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