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He's only hit me several times, but I went out and slept with someone. I feel so guilty now, I can't tell him. I'm too scared. I want out of this relationship, but I don't know how. If I leave him, I'm alone. I'm not near my family, I dont know anyone. I moved to this area of the country to be with him and I can't move back, I have a job and commitments. I feel truly awful and disgusted with myself. I've learnt alot about who I am as a person, and I dont like who I am anymore. I'm so lost and alone.
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Your safety is what’s the most important. Cheating wasn’t rigt but you can deal with that on your own time. That nan shouldn’t be putting his hands on you. You probably don’t want to get the police involved because you love him. But you have to make a movement before something worse happens to you.
ReplyYour relationship with him is over anyway. He broke your trust with his abuse. Your job and commitments is not more important than yourself and your health. How do you know that his anger and abuse is not going to escalate into you getting severely injured or even killed? Your priority is to get him out of your life for good. Don't be yet another statistic. And don't think it won't happen to YOU. You COULD have a relationship where it's normal not be abused. Think about that. OK it may well be in the future but so what? Being alone and safe and free from abuse is better than being frightened and wary with no hope. If you can return to your family even for the short-term, do so. You can always get another job. Your life doesn't have to be shit.
ReplyYou're right, cheating only served to make the situation worse. Being alone is preferable to being in an abusive relationship. You might want to consider that.
ReplyBeing in an abusive relationship is akin to being in self-imposed jail. You don't need to be in there. You CAN free yourself. Pick up an attitude of indignation. How dare that person treat you like that. You are not their slave or punching bag and there's no Law that says you have to stay there a second longer.
ReplyThere are places you can turn too. Contact your local ywca. They usually have resources and a shelter for women in your position.
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