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Can someone help me?
Most of the time I miss opportunities because I don't know who I really am and I hate it so much.
When people asked me "tell me about your self/ define your self" most of the time I can't answer it. When I can, my friends always help me to define who I am but I'm not even sure if what they say is true or you know, the real me.
If you ask me why I think like that, well what they say about me doesn't feel like me at all unless it's something bad (the bad things they say is really me, I just know it).
Is it what people call identity crisis? Or is it just me going through puberty? But now I'm in my 20s and already get my bachelor degree.
What should I do? I want me to know who I really am, my stengths and weaknesses, what am I, why am I even alive, what will I be, what can I be, is it even living if you have no purpose in this world. The older I get, the confusion of those things grows bigger and bigger.
Please help me as a fellow human..
Some of you may think that God can give me the answer, just pray, read the Bible, tell my parents, tell someone close to you. Yeah, I already know it, you don't need to tell me that.
I never ever had a thought about killing my self, like never, killing others, well may be. But it's more than that. This whole identity thingy is killing me inside slowly.
I'm not the brightest, the only one call me pretty is my parents (most of the time they scold me for being fat), not the smartest, not really outgoing, not mature for my age, stubborn, and many more. Just thinking about this suffocate me, it hurt so much inside.
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God loves you and I will pray for you . YOu are precious and loved .
ReplyThank you so much, God also love you.
ReplyOMG you literally just described me Hahahah. Same is the case with me. Would I be the same even after my bacherlors xD
Don't worry too much about it. Take it easy. Just don't think about this so much. I know you are stressed and all. Just don't let the negativity take over yourself. Think positive about yourself,the world and everything. You are beautiful the way you are. What's inside really is what truly matters. You are and you always will be the best version of yourself. Noone can even challenge you. Instead of focusing on the negative, focus on the positive. You are just thinking so negative about yourself. Love yourself and don't let the opinions of others sadden you. Your happiness is really important. Work on it. I too am doing the same. Good luck.
Hope you'd feel better soon :)
ReplyThank you, I'm gonna start thinking positively about myself. Thank youu
ReplyI don't know how am I going to help you but I just want you to know that physical appearance can't define one person. What is wrong about being fat? Food is life. Not being the smartest? Study is life but really food is lifer. :)) Outgoing? Well, same because I hate humans. Not mature for your age? That takes time. :) Fighting with your problems will mold you to a better and mature person so keep fighting. Stubborn? I think everyone has a stubbornness in their bodies so... there's no wrong about it. Don't overthink, life's tough but so are you. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND AMAZING AND THANK YOU FOR EXISTING. <3
ReplyThank you.. dang, I'm just so full of negativity.. Thanks for saying all of that
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