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Hi,
I’m just a teenage girl and I just finished my first year at high school. My biggest dreams are becoming a surgeon. I don’t tell this to many people because my grades in school are good but they are not like great or amazing and sometimes I feel ashamed to tell other people about my goals because I’m scared they would think I’m stupid and that I just have big dreams. I study a lot, like a lot but there is no progress. There is no amazing grades and sometimes my school and people there give me feeling that I am just stupid. Plus another thing is that I love fashion and my parents do sometimes buy me designer stuff or take me to a fancy restaurant or a hairdresser. And all of my friends think that we are super rich. And I must say that I love that feeling but we are not. We are just a normal second class family. And the major problem is that I am so scared that people would think that we are poor. I have a boyfriend and he is just the most amazing person ever and I know that he loves me no matter what but I don’t want him to come at our house because it’s small and not very modern and my room is just ugly and small and I don’t feel good in it. I feel emotionally tired of just wanting to be someone else. I want to be that person that others think I am. I don’t want to be what I actually am. I never told this to anyone because I know everyone would just say that I should just be me and so on.
Thanks for your help.
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To be a surgeon you need grades that are great, not just good. You also need several hundred-thousands of dollars for your education.
it seems like you're very focused on material things and on image, especially as it relates to money. You might want to spend some time learning about how people in poverty- real poverty- live. A serious investigation into the real issues that millions of people face every day. This might provide you with increased gratitude for all that you have.
ReplyOkay. Here’s the thing. Don’t be worried about your house being small or out of style. Easier said than done but it doesn’t matter in the slightest. And I don’t want to be one of those people but, hey, at least you’ve got a roof over your head and your not on the streets. Also, i think you’re kinda like me. I could study for hours on end but not retain a single thing. I had great grades, I thought about becoming a surgeon or nurse, even starting out as a CNA, but I realized I didn’t have a stromg enough passion to do that. Don’t become a surgeon if all you want is the money. You will not be a good doctor if that is your only goal. Find something you’re passionate about, because you’ll be doing this career the rest of your life. Plus, more than often, if you’re passionate about it and genuinely into what you’re learning, you tend to absorb and remember all you have learned. You’ve got a long ways ahead of you and time to figure it out, I believe in you.
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