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I am a girl and there's this girl I really like (Let's call her A). We are friends and we hang out every once in a while.
A is currently dating another girl, but the the girl she is dating (Let's call her M) is questioning and does not know for sure if she likes A.
I am being respectful about A and M's relationship but I need to know if A and myself have something or am I reading too much in to a situation because I really like A.
So, A and Me have been friends for a few months now. the problem is that A never reaches out to ask to hang out. Its always me. But when we do, hang out we end up just talking for hours at a stretch. When we talk about life, I will sometimes say, that it feels like there is no one for me, just to see how she would react. And she can dead straight look in to my eyes and genuinely tell me that I will find someone soon. She tells me she misses me but she never reaches out to me. On the other hand, she told me that she told her girlfriend, M. that she loved her but M never said it back.
So here is my problem.
Obviously A likes M alot. But then everytime A and I hang out I feel like we have something. But then she tells me that she told her girlfriend that she in love with he . But then she tells me that she misses me alot and then never reaches out. But she also always says YES when I ask to hang out with her.
Am I misguided in thinking that I may be in the friend zone but she likes me and she's scared to reach out because she is in a committed relationship with someone who she loves but knows that they are not nearly on the same frequency ?
I don't know what is going on. I feel like may be reading too much into the situation because I like her so much.
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Friend zone.. A has M but A wants more emotional support you provide the emotional support that M does not give.. so A is happy, she is with M who she wants but the gaps in the relationship are filled by you.. you can spend a long time waiting for her, but it may never come
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