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So about 2 years ago maybe a bit longer. I met this girl. I could tell she was lonely and hurting. So I decided to become friends with her. I never felt attracted to her, but she really liked me more than a friend. I told her a handful of times I just wanted to be friends. She became really clingy and made it look like we were dating, so one day I pretty much ghosted her. I have always felt guilty about this. I have always felt like a complete ass. I also kind of owe her 50 dollars. I ghosted her around the time that I graduated highschool. She gave me a bigger check than my grandmother. That's what she thought of me. For some reason after a these years I haven't forgotten this. I always wanted to look at myself and see a good person, but looking at this scenario I can't say I am. Over the past few years I have become a person I despise. Today I woke up and realized I need to change things. Should and pay her back? Or just live and forget. I strongly believe in karma to a certain extent. Its like a my name is Earl situation. I feel like I need to pay her back. Fix things. It's been so long I don't even know if it's worth it. What do you guys think?
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Drop the check in the mail and leave it at that
ReplyI wish I could but I don't remember her exact address
ReplyI doubt she cares about the money tbh. Explain why you ghosted. Now THAT will clear your karma. I know it's hard to open up and be vulnerable in such a situation, but the truth is that helping her to understand is the only way to clear that Karma. The material things of this world mean nothing in a spiritual realm.
ReplyThis scenario isn't very related, but it does give an impression that makes me understand your pain. I was a bully when I was younger, which I didn't acknowledge until around two years later. There were these two boys that I disliked, and mistreated. No matter how many times I look back at it, I feel horrible. Even now, six years later, I feel like the worst person in the world. I still haven't talked to them about it. I don't know if it'll open any more wounds or if it'll make anything better.
This ultimately depends on you, and the influence you think you'll leave behind. If you think that, regardless of the consequences, at least you talked to her and explained the situation, then go ahead. I support you. I think it's best to let her know about the situation. It'll bring clarity, and you two will have closure on the issue. I just wish I had the balls to do that when I was younger.
I wish you good luck.
ReplyThanks. I don't know what I'll do. I think it will just cause more problems honestly. What if she still likes me ? I don't want the same thing to happen again.
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