Man or MAN?

Lets go back to two weeks ago. I received an e-mail from someone I once knew asking about my son. My child now being school age and someone I once knew asking about my child. Your probably wondering what this someone I once knew has anything to do in common with me or my son. Well some years ago this someone lets call him "Guy" at a party at my house and we clicked. Guy always came to my parties and stayed the night...at my place. I sure you can add 1+1 and that was it. We didn't date we kept things to out primate nature of wanted to be fiscal. A few months go by and I find out Im pregnant. Now before Guy came to our party I had a of and on boyfriend. I told Guy I was pregnant and he asked me if I wanted and abortion. I pretty sure he even said he'd pay for it if I got one. To most peoples surprise I announce my pregnancy with no Shame. A child is a gift and no ways was I going to throw that gift away. So lets go back to two weeks ago. Guy Messaged me asking if my Child was his and if he could have a paternity DNA test done. Crazy to hear right? I think yes! We talked back and forth nothing bad but, I did want to be a mean person. I wasn't mean one bit though. After talking to Guy, I had a conversation with my husband. My husband who was well aware of the fact that my son might not biologically be his. My husband was the man I was dating before the partying, and I also got fiscal with him around the same time. now lets fast forward to this past week. I received an e-mial regard the dna test result regarding my husband and my child. To some but not little surprise my the DNA test provided my husband was not the biological father. I cried. My husband looked at me and said "Why are you crying" I thought he'd be sad, mad....to be honest I wasn't sure. My husband looked at me and said "That is my child, I don't need DNA to tell me that!" My husband still treats our child that same amount of love. Id say they have even been spending more time together. So I tell Guy I have the e-mail. Guy is now saying he dosn't wast to know if he is the father. To be honest I don't under stand why and don't plan to learn any more why. I would like to address Guy. Thank you for giving me the best parts of you. My child is smart, kind, charming, and all things good. I know now from knowing you and interacting with you I know how to not raise my child. I know I myself wasn't innocent nor am and I'll make him aware. To be fair it takes two. I will make sure my child knows how to treat men and women with respect. I will also let my son know that we where young when things took place and that my child is a blessing. I want to thank Guy for giving me the best part of him...because my child is being raised by a man. My child is being raised by a Father not a man who just help my child grace this earth. Am I scared of my child one day asking why they don't look like my husband or there siblings? The answer would be yes. I hunts me. I hunts to to have to tell him I got pregnant with someone who choose not to want to be apart of my Childs life. Am I afraid my child will hate me? Yes. Im afraid my child will resent me or think that their life was a mistake. I would tell my child that in no way where they a mistake! I wish Guy knew how much he is missing out on my child (Guys child too). My child is perfect and wonderfully made. I don't understand how you could bring child into this world and go about your life get married and have kids and still no want to be their even if it wasn't being dad...just even being around. Crazy right?

Guy if your reading this, I know their is some kind of nice guy deep down inside, and Im sorry for you, and your right I am blessed.