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All was going well till I passed a joke about my friends ex boss about him using lip moisturiser after act of kissing. The moment I said that, she fired back at me, blaming me that I meant something else, that I was talking abt her exboss kissing her. Tried to calm her down that it was jus a joke on her exboss and not related to her but she refused to believe it. She also Passed comments abt how my wife will feel if someone treated her like this or say something abt her. That got me really furious but I still didn't react. Messgd her to clarify that it was not abt her. After a few hrs when I got free, the moment I got the opportunity, I gave her a call. After that call I felt like I made a big mistake. The whole time she kept in saying that I know what I said. Didn't accept that when I told her that it was not with respect to her. Wanted me to apologise. I didnt coz I didn't say anything abt her. Tried to make her understand but to no avail. Kept on pushing me to accept what she thought I said. Told me that I meant that she was characterless. I got so furious. I told her she can think what she wants but I have already told the truth. And worst thing is she reacted and also said my wife is also characterless if I think she is. This was what made me so furious. I told her she can't bring my wife into our fight. I couldnt believe she wud stoop to such extremes. Even in anger she shoudnt have said anythin abt my wife. I literally had a sort of an attack - my chest started paining, my face turned red, my hands were shaking. I was so furious and hurt at the same time that I couldn't talk to anyone. It was like I felt choked. I didn't expect her to say these things. If she trusted me , she shudn have thought that I wud imply something like that. But she did think wrong and that means that if she doesn't trust my words, then I cannot depend on her again. I Dnt think I can trust her behaviour. I will never b sure when she will react or how he will react. I can't take the blame for something I havnt said or done. I think after what she said, I shud take a break from all the pain. Its like everytime she hurts me , some part of me dies and that part doesn't feel anything anymore. I m just tired of justifying myself.
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yes, inappropriate jokes can be offensive and sometimes people will get angry.
ReplyYeah but the joke had nothin to do with my friend. She is angry because she thinks the joke is abt her even when i am tellin it is not. And also one cant directly attack family jus because there is a misunderstanding.
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