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I was an extroverted person and I love making new friends. Last year, I'm so selfish and thinking about my ownself only till a point I lied to my friend and used her money for my own benefit. I thought about paying back early this year. So many things happened, I didn't manage to do so but I still paid them half of the amount. I just got a new job in a very small company. Today is 11th Oct, but we (all the staffs) still haven't received our salary yet that we are supposed to received around 28th September. I would like to pay all thr balances early Oct, but since this happened I couldn't manage to do so. We're no longer in a good terms. She talked bad about me (but I'm totally okay with that) till one day, she started to drag my mom's name, she twisted every single of my old texts to another friends.
Things doesn't stop there. She gave my number to her friend, someone I don't know. That friend texted me and called me names. I never replied. I live in depression. I lost all my friends.
I'm all alone, I hoping for them to actually just stop verbally or cyber-bullying me, so I can continue to live normally after this. I don't have anyone with me. I'm thinking of suicidal after everything is over since there's no one else with me. I'm afraid to even go out, I'm afraid if someone from her cirle of friends/anyone will recognize me.
I'm just hoping, if you have a friend that made a mistake, small or big, it's okay not to forgive, just not go around and spread her bad sides. We don't know what they're experiencing and just because they're smiling it don't me they're actually happy.
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you need to explain to her what the issue is in paying her back. you made the big mistake of not telling her what's going on regarding the payments and then when you were late in paying and still offered no explanation, it looks very much like you ripped her off and don't even care...thats the way it would seem to her and although what she is currently doing to you is out of line, she does have the right to be angry with you...I suggest pulling her aside and apologizing to her for the lack of communication as it wasn't intentional, you just haven't been able to come up with a regular payment schedule yet and that's why you haven't said anything to her yet
Finish up with another apology and ask her could she please back off with the bullying cause its just making it worse. promise her that you will pay her back the full amount and ask her to be patient as you're doing the best you can at the moment...don't tell her you'll pay her back and then not...do the right thing...if you borrow money from someone then do the decent thing and pay it back
ReplyHave you try to apologize? It's okay if you don't want to but it's better you did. You need to keep moving on with all the pressure for awhile. After you gain your money, pay her back. Then it's done, you don't have to fix everything just do what you have to and leave the rest. Go foward to the next life, bring those as life lessons. Everyone who talks bad on you will eventually got tired anyway, if they don't... well too bad for them then. Goodluck. Keep on moving. Wish you all the best.
ReplyForgiving sombody is for yourself , so if your friend cant forgive you shes only hurting her self but whe doesn't realize it . forgiving sombody is for yourself because if you cant forgive sombosy then that means your still holding that hate and greed in and your not releasing it, (by releasing it i dont mean calling ppl rude things) in order to release hate you have to be ok with yourself
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