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I just recently started talking to a senior boy 2 weeks ago (im a junior). Saturday night he went to a party... his girl cousins birthday and she is a sophomore and im friends with her too. so of course she had friends in her class and i knew it was going to be a big party. I asked him before he went am i going to have to worry about him and i thought i could trust him but i didnt want to leave me so i sent a 'spy' to go and watch him and the spy came back and told me he asked a girl to twerk on him. but the girl said no.
my question is do i have a right to be mad at him if
1. were not dating
2. she didnt do it.
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Replyso i shouldnt be mad
ReplyYou aren't dating. That means he can do whatever he wants with whatever girls he wants.
ReplyAlrighty. I completely understand why you would be mad. His the guy you like, you don't want him to be like this and hurt you. I completely get that but looking over it in the boy's perspective, you shouldn't be mad. He isn't boyfriend and it didn't actually happen, he just asked, which is still not a good thing. He shouldn't be going around and asking others for something like that. I completely understand why you would be mad because I was in a similar position, a past crush of mine asked a girl to have sex with him and she declined. I was mad but when I later confronted him, he told me, that were aren't together and that he is allowed to do whatever he wants. You shouldn't be mad at him or the girl
Replythank you for your understanding seriously!! But what it change your opinion if i told you that we were publicly talking. Everyone knew i was his girl. people used to call us goals. long hugs in the hallway. holding hands. I was basically his girlfriend already without the title right?
dont be mad, but express the fact that you cant trust him
ReplyDo all boys behave the same way? Gee I don't know. Do all girls behave the same way?
no, all girls do not behave the same way. For example I would never dream of sending a "spy fault into a situation to baby sit someone that I am interested in. that's terribly immature.
Replywow, yes, why don't you tell him you're mad at him- and then, of course, tell him that you sent someone to spy on him. yes. let's see how he likes such a lowdown underhanded foolish act. he ought to be real respectful of you and will really like you a lot after you tell him how completely disrespectful you were if him. yeah, that ought to make him attracted to you. tell him. tell him now. uh huh. for sure.
ReplyHe has a right to be mad at you. You had no right to spy on him. If anyone ever spied on me like this, I would never trust them and I would never speak to them again.
ReplyHe has a right to do what ever he wants to do in life. I didnt go to the party but my friend was going anyway so i told her to just watch him cause he said he wouldn't do anything... and the girl he asked surprisingly was the girl best friend.
But you expect me to not have someone just keep tabs on you while you wit a whole bunch of other females. He not about to have me out her looking dumb as hell cause he out here wildn. If you wanna wild out then you shouldn't be talking to a female period. thats telling false hopes, and signals. you talk to someone to make sure he/she is right for you, to see how the act. thats why people don't just walk up to you and say aye lets go out. But males don't get it cause 9 times out of 10 there not the ones getting hurt.
ReplyYes that's what a mature relationship looks like a mature relationship does not include having someone else keep track of him as if he is your pet. He is not. He is his own person. Not only is he his own person but you are not dating.
Replywtf does a mature relationship looks like. cause just basically agreed wit me
ReplyYes I would expect you not to have someone keep tabs on him. In fact, that is most definitely what I would expect - and what polite society would expect as well. Most definitely did not agree with you, not even close, you merely misunderstood.
Replyisn't it fun, the kind of things you encounter when you do things you shouldn't! kind of like when someone snoops in someone else's phone or email. nothing good comes from such acts.
ReplySo rather just him do stuff behind my back and people look at me crazy cause he t parties acting just how he said he wasn't.
ReplyYou're not in a relationship. Nothing he does is behind your back. His choices belong to him.
Replyyou're a junior? in high school?
and you had someone spy on a boy? really?
ReplyWhat age do you pefer me to be. What age is considered to spy? because people on social media stalk starting at the age of 11.
ReplyI would expect you to be a very young child- because very young children often play at spying.
are you getting advice on how to stalk a boy from poorly socialized 11 year olds on social media?
ReplyTo be honest I wouldn't be mad I would just be hella hurt especially if he said he wouldn't do anything.
ReplyWhat all of you fail to realize it that i told him before he even went to the party
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