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I’m at an age where a lot is changin in life. I am fortunate to be supported by my family. I hate feeling depressed or down because I feel as if I have no right to feel this way. Honestly I feel overwhelmed all the time, I’ve been with this boy for a while who frankly treats me like rubbish, when I’m needed by him. I’m his world and he is mine and it consumes me. When he finds other girls I am ignored, treated as what we had and what he said never happened. I find my self resenting and hating myself because of it, I hate to admit it but he means so much to me. Last time I communicated these ideas to him he shut it all down, replied with “it’s not working”. He makes me feel so desperate. Everyone else has people who want to be with them but I just feel untouchable. I look at myself in disgust. I just feel so worthless and such a depressive. I just feel as if no one, even my friends, actually like me for me, I feel misunderstood and as if I have to fake parts of who I really am.
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For starters, you do have the right to feel sad and to just be down sometimes. We ALL have that right. Just because we may have it good financially or physically etc. doesn't mean we can't still have negative emotions in other things once in a while. Everyone has their very own right to feel whatever it is they feel, so don't worry. That is absolutely okay! :D in fact it's normal and NATURAL to feel depressed at moments.
That's just for starters. The other thing I want to mention is that this boy does not sound very good for you. One thing I personally never understood was why we as humans feel crappy about OURSELVES when we hear the opinions of OTHERS, but I guess at least the good side is that we feel good when complimented as well (: So first don't hate yourself or call yourself worthless OR see yourself in disgust anymore. Just don't do ANY of that. Because you know what I say? I say take a good long hard look in the mirror, and tell yourself that you are beautiful and loved. There are millions and billions (and soon trillions //: which is a lot) of people out there. Some say bad things about you. Some will treat you like garbage just like this little piece of crap is treating you, but others will say GOOD things, and will treat you the way you DESERVE. Sorry to call him crap lol I know you care about him, but darling you really shouldn't.. You should love and care for someone who will reciprocate these feelings back towards you.
But believe it or not, it all starts with loving yourself ^-^ The self fulfilling prophecy proves that we basically won't find love until we see it in ourselves. For example "No one likes me!" says the boy that looks like a loner. "Well he doesn't seem.. friendly" says that girl that walks by. "See? No one likes me!". Love yourself, show your confidence, then people will sense it. They pick up on that kind of body language (; But how to love yourself; F*ck those losers that have nothing better to do than waste their time treating you unfairly and talking bad about you. They're not worth listening to. Also people judge regardless of whether you're doing the right or wrong thing, so just do YOU. It's tricky cuz you don't want to hear people's complaints about you, but you NEED to pay attention to those that say nice things about you hehe, because we ALL deserve to receive positive vibes when we give the same in return ^.^ These are just a few simple tips to viewing yourself in a more positive light
No need to fake who you are just to try to fit in. You'll notice some interesting stuff if you start to be the real you. ;D You want real? You got it! ^=^ All right up here, in my comment ((;
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