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He was 22. I was 15. I thought he was a nice guy. I thought he meant everything he said. "I'm a nice guy" "you're so mature for your age" "I just want to make you happy"
He was nice in the beginning. He brought me flowers and chocolate, and insisted on driving me everywhere. He did all the right things. He knew how to make me think he was amazing. I didn't love him, but I thought I could eventually, so I dated him. First mistake. Everyone told me I couldn't, I shouldn't. Something about being told I can't do something makes it impossible for me to not do it. In my eyes that means I have no choice but to prove them wrong. Second mistake. He continued to be nice until I started having my own opinions. I didn't want to do what he wanted me to. So he forced me. He grabbed me, pushed me, pulled me. I ignored it because he'd apologize and bring me a gift everytime, so i thought it was ok, and that he didn't mean to hurt me. Third mistake. One time he wanted me to go somewhere with him and I decided to put my foot down and actually not let him force me. He pulled me by wrist, leaving bruises, then pulled my hair like a leash, then grabbed me around the waist and tried to pick me up. I fell to the floor and said "fuck you". He walked away and finally showed his true colors, "Get the fuck off the floor, you're disgusting". He did and said all this in broad daylight in front of all my friends. They chose to look the other way and ignore it. I ran outside and cried for an hour. I broke up with him that night. I warned my female friends about him and they understood and stopped talking to him completely. Some time passed and I told my male friends, who felt bad but continued talking to him and ignored what had happened. I called out Red himself and he denied the whole thing. "You're crazy, that never happened" "No one will believe you". I didn't want him to lose friends, but isn't it weird that all of his "friends" are high schoolers? Should I just let it go?
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now that it's after the fact, you may have little recourse.
however thank you for sharing your story of how he told you all the nonsense you wanted to hear, how he manipulated you, and how this type of situation turns abusive.
many many young girls here buy into that crap ever day and don't listen when warned. maybe they'll learn from your experience.
ReplyI hope so, I did something I shouldn't have. He was a terrible person behind the scenes. Thank you <3
Replytoday is a good day to forgive yourself for your past mistakes and move forward, smarter than you were before. yes, he was a terrible person and you deserve better. take care.
ReplyHe sounds like a pedophile. You can report that to the police. It is literally illegal
ReplyMy therapist reported it, but I didn't choose to press charges, and I denied having sex with him. I decided to just let it go, but if he comes near me again I can still press charges, same goes if he goes after another girl my age
ReplyUm, yeah, a 22 year old dating a 15 year old and hanging around high school kids is a problem...plus he’s an abusive asshole. He should be reported. I will tell you this...i know of someone in his 20’s who started dating a 14 year old and got her knocked up, and he was also abusive. When she was 19 she left him, and he found out he had a kid from an ex girlfriend and took his kid and the kid’s sister (who wasn’t his) in. Well, at 30 or so, he began sexually abusing his 10 year old “daughter” and this lasted until she was 14 and reported it. Yes, theres a problem and he needs to be reported.
Replyit's easy to say what you'd do if you were me, but it's easier said than done. I'm the one that'd have to explain to my mother what happened, and I'd have to go to court. I'm not interested in going through that, no matter how selfish it seems
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