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So I met this guy, that was coming to my school in the fall, over the summer through mutual friends and I felt we instantly connected. We continued to hang out in this friend group and began to get more touchy and flirty. My friend told me that he just had a flirtatious personality so I shouldn't think he has any real feelings. Anyways, he went to visit family for a month and a half and we facetimed every now and then. When he came back, so did the feelings. One night we hung out with our group and him and I just went and talked about life. I just knew he felt something too. Eventually, school started back up and he had classes and sat with this girl he has been friends with forever and completely stopped talking to me. I finally reached out to him the other week and asked him how he was doing and he said he really liked this girl and wanted a real relationship but that was the opposite of what she wants. I told him he should change his perspective and start stepping back now if he knew for sure she wouldn't change. He agreed. The next day we talked again and spontaneously facetimed me but I was asleep. I want to tell him that he shouldn't be with her because she is not a good influence on him and is basically using him and he deserves better. I want to tell him how I feel about him. But even if things eventually work about between us, I think I'm always going to be looking behind my back to see if he still likes her/talks feelings to her and I don't want to have that anxiety. I want to know that he will move on and focus on the now but I don't know if I can trust him. What should I do?
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ReplyIf you are basing not trusting him from experience, then that is valid. But if you don't have a reason not to trust him, then give him a chance. And as far as trying to tell him how you feel, the next time your friend group hangs out, and he starts being flirtatious again, then just tell him how you feel.
ReplyTrust the other one they know what they are doing. Xxxx
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