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Since I was young, I have always been a shy person. I don't like to socialize with strangers unless someone I know is there. I don't know if I have anxiety or if it's just normal, but I also have a hard time when it comes to speeches reaching the fact that I may be sweating, my hands and legs shaking and stuttering. I am having a lot of problems I didn't have when young and I am scared of them. Even though I am a shy person, I still have a lot of friends, but within my friends, I only have 4 bestfriends, but in my opinion, they are taking advantage of me at times. I am still at school, and to be saying, I am not the most intelligent person at our class, and I am not honor roll, but when we do group works, they always give me the hardest things for me to do, and they are honor roll. I am sometimes sick and tired of dealing with them and it just stresses me out so much. Also, as we are friends, it is normal for us to share out food, but everyday they ask me if they can have my food and I don't know how to say no, My mother always put around 2 bags of chips, and they always take my favorite ones. They also always ask me if I am going to buy at the cafeteria, but I don't really want to since I already have food, but they always end up persuading me. Moreover, sometimes you think about asking them to do you a favor, but afterwards, you end up regretting it because it may be rude or something like that, that's what I always do. But, they always ask me to do their unpleasant work and they would always be like: "Pleaseeeeee! Can you do this please??????". I don't like it, but I don't really have a choice since they are my besties. Also, when they are super busy and I ask for help, they would finish their work first and then help me right? But when they ask me for help, they always tell me to hurry up and to explain it to them fast. I am like I never rush you and you come and rush me? If I ask for advice, you guys would probably tell me to stop being friends with them, but I can't. I get along with them sometimes, but I get irritated also. I am not very good at making friends anymore...
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I'm sure there are plenty of people around you that you might not be friends with, but would love to be friends with you! For example, I texted this guy who I thought didn't want anything to do with me, but he actually just had the same problem of not being able to start a conversation!
ReplyThank you! I'll take that into consideration.
ReplyFirst and Last suggestion to you from My side.
Learn to say "NO".
ReplyI will try to, thanks!
ReplyU can talk with strangers by online medium....nd if u start to learn say no u will be great....and u are a great person dear live ur life happily... U can talk to us
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