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I'm in school, 7th grade and I like one girl and I know she is the one because when I first thought of she and I together I realised that I finally have chosen who I like. Before I mostly didnt think of us together because she was with another boy, but as I see from distance they aren't that much together.They dont spend a lot of time together and they dont kiss or hug anymore. I know that another boy also likes her and I she likes him too but I dont think it will work out because he is kinda "bad" but not rude with people just like acting cool and smoking(I'm not sure if she knows about that) and she is perfect(I cant even think of anything bad about her which sometimes annoys me).But this boy Is also one of my biggest friends and i dont want to break the relationship between us.My idea is to wait until they get together and then break up.Do you agree?
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ReplyI suggest you befriend her for now and just get to know her more.
ReplyGirls this age may gravitate towards the “bad boy” in their school. Waiting for her to date him and break up is also not the best idea. If she likes someone already, either you flirt and make a move before she dates him, or you move on. Don’t chase after someone who doesn’t care about you either. If she’s really into this other guy, maybe its not the right time for you to go for her. Also take your friendship into consideration. Do you want to lose your friend over a girl? How much does he really like her. If they date and break up, will he be okay with you dating her??
ReplyIf you really like her this much, then why wait for her to get hurt by the “bad boy”? You don’t need to be dating to have a relationship with her. Be friends with her. Talk to her. Find out her interests, what she likes and what she hates. Get closer to her, and maybe you will become an important person in her life. Then she will realize that she doesn’t need bad boys, when she already has a good guy friends that supports her and is amazing to her that she could turn into her boyfriend. Don’t be scared of the friend zone. Sometimes you need to start there in order to power through it and get to the other side. As for your guy friend, continue to be friends with him while perusing other things you want, like a relationship with this girl. Hope this helps :)
ReplyI know how you feel. I am a sophomore in high school and I know what you feel. I have also gone through the pain of thinking someone is the person of your dreams and thinking you can't have them, but you know what, you will meet other people who might be even better than her. If she is going after this bad boy, then maybe she is not too good of a person either. On the other hand, you should not be afraid of hurting this bad boy's feeling. If you really like this girl as much as you described, then go for it. The worst that could happen is she turns you down, but know you'll know how she feels instead of just waiting and wondering if anything would happen. Well, I wish you the best of luck, and remember, there are plenty of more fish in the sea.
ReplyDude its seventh grade. It may seem like all the cute/hot/popular girls go for the bad boys. I wasnt the cool kid with chicks in seventh grade either. If you truly do like this girl, just always be a friendly face whos nice and try to get to know her as a friend as well. Im a freshman in high school and I was friends with my current girlfriend while she was dating another guy. I never was mean or tried to affect their relationship in any way, but when he did something bad and they broke up, guess who was the shoulder for her to cry on. To make the story short, its seventh grade and not the end of the world, and just always be a friendly face, she'll notice you eventually. Good luck dude.
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