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Im turning 15 soon and I've realized I've never had a boyfriend before. I know It's not that big of a deal and t that I dont need a boyfriend but I'd nice to have someone like that in my life. Everyone around me has either had a boyfriend or currently has one. I have friend who have new boyfriends every week and I find myself wondering how she does it. Of course I don't want a relationship like that but Im so envious of how easy my friend makes it to be. People say that I'm so pretty that I look out of someone's league and I'm not just trying to say that because I honestly think I'm nothing special. I've had friends offer to hook me up with people but everytime those guy's are jerks and just go after my body. I know I'm in highschool and having a boyfriend should be the last thing on my mind but after almost 15 years of hearing my friend's about their relationships I can't but wonder will I ever find someone? I honestly don't know anymore and I feel like my heart is just breaking. Maybe I'm just overreacting and not thinking straight but I know this feeling of being alone will happen again. I just wish I could find someone like everyone does. I won't complain or whine that I can't find a boyfriend but I will wonder if it's me or something else. Maybe I could get someone else's opinion and then I could feel better so any suggestions would be greatly appreciated and even if you just read this I'm fine with that too
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I think... you sound like a beautiful person. and sometimes, people don't get boyfreinds or girlfriends in high school. But one day. They find their soulmate, and none of that high school bs matters anymore. I think you'll find your soulmate one day. I don't doubt it at all.
ReplyThank you very much for your kind words. They are greatly appreciated ❤
ReplyNo problem <3
ReplyOkay well let me take a wack at it,
Hey I'm Cody (Nickname)
I've lived a lot of places, I'm 15 male
So the thing with relationships is it's not how it looks. I know it always seems so great and like everyone has a soulmate and all that. Honestly, there are pluses and minuses to not being in relationships. I understand what it's like to love someone who doesn't love you back. I understand that sometimes love just doesn't work out for some people. When you get in a relationship by the end of it one of you will get hurt. That's life. But don't let that stop you from chasing people. You learn more from relationship failures than you do from movies or TV Shows. I recently read a book series. I love to read it opens up so many doorways. I'm a guy and it might sound weird but I read. "To all the Boys I've Loved Before" You should give it a read the movies on Netflix but it's not as good. Still, it explains things pretty well from a teenage girls view (I'm Guessing, I'm just a guy). So all I'm trying to say is, most of the time you find the best things in your life while not looking. Don't try to force it but, don't let life pass you by.
Sincerely, Your fellow Teenager,
Cody
ReplyThanks a lot Cody and you are right. I should let love come to me but also put in my own elbow grease. I'll also look into that show as well. Thank for your words ❤
ReplyAnytime
ReplyOh darling, you have so much life still to live. Don't let your high school years be drowned out by wanting love, you are so young. Enjoy the good things you have now, spend time with friends and family. Do what you want and be content with yourself, you are beautiful. Boys aren't everything. I didn't start dating until after high school, but even then I still experienced my share of heartbreak. You've got so much time, don't rush it. These years will fly by, don't waste them worrying about what you don't have.
ReplyOkay literally me when I was in High School. I literally used to PRAY that I would get into a long term relationship. Then I did eventually and learned a lot. My best advice is to stop wanting it. Love comes around when you least expect it. Do your thing an the universe will someone send someone to you.
ReplyHere's my advice: don't search for love. Search for dating. Dating is fun but it's not the same as love. You can't find love, love can't find you. You literally have to grow love with someone. You're going to go through a lot of people that were not the one (these are called flings) date first then if you really like them you can go steady.
ReplyAs people said it before, you're pretty young, you're not late or anything. But I know exactly how frustrating it is when everyone around you is in a relationship (regardless how serious or loving it is). I've felt that through whole high school and still do, but don't blame yourself, you probably just haven't met the right person yet, and it's good that you have standards. And someone said it already, but maybe you should start going on dates - perhaps with the people your friends trying to set up with. You don't have to do anything you don't want to, but maybe going out to eat something or watch a movie and then talk could be nice. And if you don't enjoy it, you don't have to do it anymore. But you'll feel if it's right or not. :)
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