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I hate it when people look down on me. So when I talk with them I always tell them something big that I have and make them envy with me. In hope, they won't look down on me anymore. But I really don't like this way. I regret after I do this. I don't think this is the right thing to do to make people stop look down on you. But I really can't control my emotion and my mouth when I already mad at people who did it to me. I just want to be humble and not arrogant but I end up did the opposite. I'm so sad rn
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Do they look down on you more now than they did 30 minutes ago?
Replyno, they were surprise for what I have and said it was awesome.
ReplyWhy make them envy via tall talking?? When you can do it through something your good at (I know because everyone is good at something) as for emotions well your a human being so that ok, but when you feel angry and want to burst out, just take 3 to 5 deep breath and you'll be normal (tried and tested) let me know how it is when you do that to control yourself.
ReplyOkay omg I relate 100%. I used to HATE when people looked down on me, as if I were a lesser being. But instead of making them envy me, I began to purposefully make myself appear lesser than I am. I play the stupid role all the time and I never brag about anything. I make a lot of self deprecating jokes and laugh at criticism. Once you do this, it takes away all of the power people’s comments have over you. They begin to see you as a down to earth person and people tend to like that. No one wants to be around a person that is in love with themselves.
This doesn’t mean you’re gunna start being negative Nancy and start saying things like “ugh I’m so fat and ugly” this means that you can joke around and say things like “haha I don’t understand why god didn’t give me big boobs, a small waist and a big butt, I guess he just got lazy” things like that make people see you as someone who is aware of their *possible* flaws and is fine with joking about it.
Learn to deal with things with a sense of humor. It makes you look more confident in the end, I promise
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