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I'm not a big believer in karma or anything like that but this has got me wondering.
My friends all found love, one way or another, and I'm out here on my own now.
I've always felt that Maybe it was never meant for me, but I never thought I'd feel so bad about it.
One of my oldest friends got her first ever boyfriend and completely changed, which at 26 I was kind of shocked at. You expect that when you're 16 but I felt like I didn't know her in the end.
She'd always been a narcissist but it was amped all the way up. She became a total let down because she never wanted to spend anytime away from him and would only call me or want to see me when he upset her. Their relationship dominated every conversation and in the end i was just left feeling used and drained by her. When I tried to tell her that I missed how things were between Us she turned on me completely. Told me that I'd never been there for her when I'd sit for hours talking to her on the phone while she cried and stuff.
I lost my best friend but she still has him atleast.
Another friend of mine had been in a long distance relationship. The girl was cheating on him, and would call and text him accusing him of the same when he hung out with me or other girls in our friendgroup. I asked why he bothered and he told me that he felt like she was the only chance he was going to get at being loved.
They went Facebook official last week. And I've got no one to love me still.
I thought I had found someone though. It was unexpected, and totally changed how i felt towards being in love. Guess I learnt my lesson because he treated me bad and hardly talks to me anymore. Meanwhile I'm an idiot still hoping things will work out with us one day.
I feel like I'm being punished for looking at my friends relationships and wondering why they'd want to be with someone who makes them feel so bad about themselves? They've both got their partners, imperfect and maybe with them for the wrongs reasons.
And I've got no one. Not even my friends anymore.
don't want to try and find love again. It really was not meant for me and I feel like I've been taught a lesson there.
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It is very hard sometimes but I would rather be alone than be in a relationship like any of those you described. I'm sort of in the same boat except for me all my friends are married with kids so I just don't see them. But I nurture the relationships of those that try to spend time with me and let the rest fall where it may. As far as dating goes...well...I tell myself I might still meet a guy but I don't need one.
I hope for your sake that you find some better friends. Life is hard enough, the people in your life shouldn't make you so sad. ❤
ReplyShouldn't compare your love life to others because who's to say they're actually happy in their relationships? I think its need to accept the fact that you might need to wait it out and let love come to you. No rush, really because you're not missing out and you want the right people in your life. I'm basically alone, isolated almost and in a long distance relationship. I would always tell myself I much rather be alone than be surrounded by bad company to be honest, of course there's more to it and it's best to leave it at that. Take the time to work on yourself,maybe then it could lead you to where you want to go and what you want in your life.
ReplyI feel you bro. You’ll find someone it takes time but maybe try tinder
ReplyDon't try to find love, just let the world spin and wait. Don't give up on love, just because you haven't found anyone yet. Your friends found themselves in love and they did what they did because of what they believe and want in love. You can feel good about yourself because you were a great friend, and don't envy what they have. We all have love in our lives through one channel or another, sooner or later. Sometimes all we can do is wait...
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