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I used to be really popular in middle school and the beginning of high school because of the friend group I was in. I drifted away from them though and became friends with three other people (let’s call them Jake, Lauren and Wendy). We were all super close but about a month ago my friend Lauren moved. We “were” super close. We texted everyay and every night. We promised to keep texting and FaceTiming after she moved. We did text often in the beginning but everytime I text her now I’m left on read. I see her posting on her Snapchat stories all the time. I asked Jake if she was still texting him and apparently they had been texting and FaceTiming everyday. I was kind of upset, she was my closest friend and now I’m being left on read everyday. Our text messages is literally just me, it’s like I’m having a conversation with myself. So I’ve stopped texting her because there’s no point anymore. Jake has made another friend group and never hangs out with me at lunch anymore. Wendy though has been the only reason I smile at school. We hang out everyday at lunch, just the two of us. Everytime she has volleyball practice at lunch I sit at the library alone. I used to be invited to birthday parties all the time, and I used to hangout every weekend with my friends. Now, I spend my weekends at home. It’s depressing to watch people’s stories of them hanging out with their friends. At school I have no one to talk to, I sit alone in every class now. I’ve been told in the past to just open up and make friends and I used to be so good at that. Nowadays I just feel so insecure and everytime I talk to someone I mess up and get embarrassed. No one wants to talk to me, I try so hard. Everyday I come back from school and cry myself to sleep. I have no one to talk to about my feelings. I have no one to tell me that everything’s gonna be ok. I posted on my sc story about having a mental breakdown and not even one person asked if I was ok. Everyone I used to be friends with no longer talk to me. What makes me the most upset though is that I go out and buy them gifts, write letters, listen to their problems and after all that I’m now here, left alone with only Wendy who I only see at lunch. I just don’t want to feel so lonely anymore.
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I honestly know how you feel... and it’s going to hurt to hear the truth about your situation, but losing friends like that.. it’s just part of life. I’ve lost too many friends because of them moving away to even count. I know how hurt you must feel, how alone and abandoned. But it’ll get better. You’ll find more Wendy’s, the sun will come out of the clouds again, you will be happy. Everything will be okay. Don’t stress about it too much. We all go through phases like this and you probably wouldn’t believe it, but I’m sure that more people than you know are dealing with the same feeling of being alone. The girl that always has a smile on her face, posts things with friends constantly and always jokes around? She could be the loneliest of them all, but you’d never know because of how she built up a mask for herself. Don’t feel like you’re alone. You’ve got Wendy and you’ve got me now too. I’m here for you and so are the other people on this website.
ReplyThank you so much for the reply. That honestly made me feel so much better. I’ve always been worried about loosing friends, thank you for reminding me I’m not alone. This really helped
ReplyAw no problem. I’m glad that I could help:)
ReplyPeople grow and change, in friendships are formed on the basis of new reasons within that growth. As it should be.
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