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Does it even matter? It's 2018, everyone can be what they want to whoever they want. Rather than saying "am I straight?" or "am I gay?", why not instead "do I love her/him/them"?
From what I see now, I don't think you just want to know your sexuality. You just want to have lesbian talk. Go google them, pervert.
Replyexcuse me, all I simply asked for was advice to know if I was gay or straight and how to know if I was either those. I’m am not a pervert, you don’t even know me hah
ReplyIf you genuinely believe you could build your entire life with the woman of your dreams opposed to the man of your dreams. A lot of people go through phases when they're confused.
ReplyWhat I am going to say may be disturbing for some readers. Simply ask yourself, would you date a girl. If that is still leaves you unsure, just sit or lay down and think to yourself, “Would I enjoy having sex with a girl? Do I want to do this or that to a girl?” If you can imagine yourself having sexual relationships with the same gender, it’s a possibility that you may be bisexual, if you know for a fact that you can definitely have sexual relationships with the opposite sex as well. If you can’t imagine yourself having sex with the opposite sex, the possibility of being homosexual is more than likely. I hope this would make it a little clear for you.
ReplyFrom what I've heard & been told you would've known from very young who you are attracted to.
ReplyWho do you want to go home to at the end of the day when you’re married? That’s a hypothetical question I asked myself when I was figuring out my sexuality. Do you want to go home to a guy, a girl, either?. But please don’t stress out about this, it’s okay if you don’t know your sexuality yet. :)
ReplyIf you're a lesbian then you'll be attracted to the female binary gender
Replyi think you just have to ask yourself , how do you feel when you look or talk to girls?
ReplyI think what everyone seems to be missing in giving you advice is that your sexuality, and understanding it is only something you can do. There's a lot of right questions to ask yourself. Who are you attracted to, who do you want to come home to, but it's not that simple for everyone and that's ok. Sexual orientation is a spectrum and sometimes, even within that spectrum you might not find the term that perfectly defines you. The question is, why are you trying to label yourself? To fit a stereotype, answer someone's question or to better define your identity?
ReplyI guess in my case i could only really tell once I'd actually fallen in love with someone of the same gender. I found out I was bi because I realised I really liked this girl who I was friends with. When she came close to me my chest would get tight and my heart would beat really fast and just wanting to hold hands and kiss her. Catching myself staring at her and that's when I was like well shit how did this happen. But I was in denial for so long because my parents and people around me thought being lesbian or gay wasn't right but now I know girls and fking cute and that's okay
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