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This isn't a very big problem and people are struggeling with much worse things but I would really like some advice.
Soon it's new year's eve. My parents are hosting a dinner party for their friends and I don't wanna be a part of it since there will only be adults. I have no idea what to do on new years eve. My friends will probably go to a party and that would be a lot of fun but I never get invited to any parties. So I'm scared that I will spend new years eve at home, in my room. And I really don't want to do that. I'll see all my friends' posts on social media and then I get all sad. And everyone will think I'm lame.
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From my guess, your age must be 14-15-16. That's the age where usually a teenager doesn't want to participate on family celebrations and prefers to spend them with friends, being cool and be in the moment. I was one of them and honestly I get it. BUT my suggestion is to at least try and have some fun with your family before making any assumptions. I was 17 the last time I was out with friends and I didnt have that much fun. After I was 18, I started to share my Christmas with my family and they were the best. We would go out for a drink, come back home, eat a beautiful meal,talk about movies etc. And we would stay up all night and when the morning came we would all be asleep on the living room and wake up with joy and laughter. And you know why? Because we didnt have to prove anything to anyone. When you go out with friends, its usually a mask that you're wearing and "act" cool. That takes energy. And the end of the night you're exhausted.Friends come and go but family stays and you enjoy the simple things...At the end, family is all that matters.
I hope I gave you some food for thought.
Merry Christmas and a Happy new year to you.
ReplyWhy don't you invite them to join you at your house? Your parents will already be hosting, some enough to have a few of your friends show up. If nothing else, maybe it'll make your friends think to invite you to their own celebrations.
ReplyYour not alone every year I’m alone and always wanted to go out but have no one to celebrate it with . I always hope I find that true love to go to see the ball drop . But as it seems it won’t be happening. When the time is write it will happen that you will eventually enjoyed that time of year .
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