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I loved him before I knew his name, I loved him... I love him. My friend introduced me to him at my request. He has a way with words, so I was head over heels for him halfway through the conversation. I felt like I was stabbed when he said he has a girlfriend. We text back and forth almost everyday. I'm 18. I've never been in love, so now that I feel that I am it hurts because I know whenever we are done talking he's with her. I wonder how she'd feel if she read our conversations. I don't know how guys can say certain things without getting attached. We've been friends for a while now. He's said he loves me, ofc I said it back but now I am in pain because I know his words don't mean what I want them to mean and mine mean more than they should.
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I hope you understand that this type of behavior is not healthy. Yes, love is a strong and wonderful emotion at times, but it like other things must grow. It does not just pop up and you suddenly become infatuated--- that is called a crush, a rather serious crush. The jealousy you feel is also concerning, it is not normal, not at all. Take it this way, from the other perspective: you notice your boyfriend is talking with another girl, and he is saying some questionable things; you would see this as cheating, yes? Do you think it is right to be hurting another girl just for your own self interest? And imagine, if he is so willing to speak with you when dating another, imagine what he would do if you were dating; how many girls would he be secretly flirting with then?
This is not mentally healthy, and I think you need to seek some professional help.
ReplyHe's emotionally cheating on her with you. She should know and this guy needs to take the high way out of both of your lives. Deserves no place in it.
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