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And I mean REALLY incompatible
That's me and my family. Like even individually picking them out and trying to get along seems impossible. After a while I started to think "maybe its just me" am I the problem? I AM different from everyone else. I mean, even tho I think differently, my common needs are simply to be noticed or to have some kind of connection.
And even tho my parents suffocate me with that "come, stay here with us and hang out. Lets watch some tv" sh*t (which don't get me wrong, it feels good), they STILL don't actually hear me. It's always them them them and they never actually LISTEN, to ME. It hurts ),: I feel so left out, so disconnected, so... fake </3
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Have you tried to speak to your parents and say that you don't feel listened to. That you need them to hear you. I hope my children always know that they can turn to me and if they don't I'd want them to tell me and try and explain how they feel. There's no rule book to parenting, it's a guessing game that we just hope we get right. My mum and brother struggled to understand eachother growing up but with time, now as an adult my brother and mums relationship is stronger than its ever been.
ReplyYes. I've tried MANY times. And i am already 20, but it seems as though THEY are the immature ones; because when I tell them this, they just shrug it off or act like they didn't hear me still. My parents are also both "play the victim" types. So even though I tell them I need my space sometimes, they use that against me.
But no joke, i LIVE with them and probably hang out with em at least 95 to 98% of the time *if even that* yet still they don't understand me or know much about me /: I don't know..
ReplyIt’s definitely not you. I don’t know if it’s just their way of “hanging out” together or they just don’t understand what it should be like. I’ve never heard of an entire family this way
ReplyPerhaps it IS just their ways then. Or actually maybe it IS both; just their ways AND not understanding. Well that's okay. They still my family and I love em for trying, like you said.
At least they DO love me unconditionally. And for the most part, they never judge. They ALWAYS support me, emotionally and sometimes even financially (: Thanks for listening, and seriously thank you for helping <3
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