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I am really having a hard time communicating with my girlfriend. To be honest, I want some alone time with my family or just simply be me. I have my own problems and she has her own. We both know that our relationship is not really legal due to family restrictions. But during Christmas break made it really tough. It made me feel like I need to be forcely be with her. I want to be free. It’s her birthday today, I ordered a customized necklace for her but the supplier had a problem about the iterm so I will be able to get it next year. I want to make her day special but i dont know how, sadly everything ended up like she was expecting something from everyone. I told her to be always grateful on what she has. But, instead she told me numerous drama anout her life on how ungrateful her life is. Full of misery and everything. As if the world has forbidden her to enjoy life. I told her happiness is a choice. She can be happy alone because that is where you can really know yourself. Sadly, she doesnt know how to listen. I gave her tips, and yet this happened as if she never really appreciated my efforts of giving her the positivity in life. I hate it when she does that, it makes me feel like I’m part of her life thats making it miserable. Should I end it? I dont see myself fit for her life anymore, because anything that I do for her is like nothing to her, she just ends up neglecting it and starts talking how bad her life is.
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i don't know is this is a right platform to ask what you should do with your relationship? You seem to be knowing the answer actually. Read yourself again. You started how much you are giving and you are concerned that your GF is sobbing and negative and in last you are asking the question Should i end it? We are not in your shoes but such sadistic people i guess need someone to talk to. You, yourself know the answer. If you want to work it out and don't want to give up then stick to it. If you want to end it then don't wait for it.
ReplyI think you Do want to end it, but just don’t have the courage to; I’m not meaning it as in “you’re a coward”, I mean as in you feel for this girl but she isn’t really feeling herself much... if you have tried talking to her and she isn’t picking up anything and focusing on herself, try telling her “fuck everyone, fuck everything, all I need is you” that would probably boost her a bit...if you really do compliment her and her tell she’s everything all the time but she’s too blind to see it and doesn’t try to...then the best option would be to leave her, because she’s not only making you miserable, she’s making you even more miserable. Maybe not ending it totally, but maybe just taking a break, so she gets a snap back into reality and sees what she’s losing. A girl is a girl and me a he probs won’t msg u saying she misses you, so try msg her if you try take that way, but it is a risk, be prepared for anything babe ~Yaz x
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