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So, im sick, and me and my parents went to the doctors (for check up). And i recently cut my arm (i selfharm). The nurse told me to take my shirt off, and i paniced but i couldn't do much...so i got undressed. They saw my scars...and asked me about it...my mom doesn't know that i cut myself. And i honestly felt soo so ashamed and awkward. I almoat cryed. We went home and I told my mum..that when i feel stressed i strach myself. I never felt so ashamed in my entire life...but also awkvard...i just need somebody to calm me down and maybe tell theyre similiar experience...so i won't feel alone...please?
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That's a really tough situation to be in. The same thing happened to me recently. I had to admit to my parents that I have self-harmed for years at this point :( They weren't mad but my dad almost started crying and it felt horrible.
I think it was for the best that your mom knows now, though - if your parents don't know then they can't help you. I really hope you will feel better soon!! <3
ReplyThank you!
ReplyThere are quite a lot of people out there who have this habit like yours. I, personally don't self harm, but i had couples friends doing this and trust me it's hurts more when you see some of our close ones do this to themselves. It might temporarily distract you because you are literally diverting your mental pain/stress to your physical pain/stress which isn't as worthy as it seems at that moment. Think of how you family felt when they came to know about it. I always comforted my friends to not harm themselves, that it's not the right way to express your restfulness but in vain. It was hurting to see the scars and the fresh wound everyday after they face some stress. Trust me there are various ways to not feel stressed and they are much more useful than just hurt ourselves. Cutting ourselves won't take our stress away, will it? Nope, right? Then why bother your beautiful body. Stay Happy. Take Care. :)
ReplyThank you! I will try my best not to cut again. <3
ReplySurely :) <3
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