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Okay. Let me explain a few things. (kinda long entry here)
For the past two to three years, from time to time, i keep seeing the same dream about an old, abandoned but beautiful house.
I never enter it, and i'm always inside. i walk around completely calm and amazed from the rusty beauty of it. Now this is where it gets weird. I walk up a big staircase, into a bedroom where most of the stuff are still there. An unmade king sized bed, with dusty satin sheets, a vanity mirror with still some old lipsticks, fans and perfume bottles and mind you, it has a very tall seiling. The whole building has tall seilings. As i look to the right, i see and big bookcase and on top of it, touching the seiling, i see a glass rectangular door with dark red velvet curtains covering the inside. I climb up the bookcase, ballancing on the shelves and when i get to the top, I open the door, push the curtains aside and i have to squeeze to get in. Next thing you see, is another huge room. But this time it's like another hidden bedroom but even more rusty. Again everything is abandoned and it's cold. when i walk a bit further to my right, i feel wind coming behind some other white linen curtains and when i pull them aside, i see and abandoned lake pond. INSIDE THE HOUSE. But it's quiet. The only thing i see it's that it's always at sundown, the sun had just set, soft water noises and when i walk towards it, i wake up.
Every time it's the same thing. Nothing is changing and nothing is out of place.
So i need someone to help me what the hell does this dream mean because on the internet it doesn't have such a specific explanation and i would really like to hear your thoughts on this.
Thank you
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My thoughts are just that so I hope you’ll allow me to speak directly and assuredly as it’s just easier to express:
The old abandoned house represents your relationship with your mom, a female caregiver or maybe even you. If you’re a male, it would be your feminine side that you’ve abandoned. If it relates more to your mom/caregiver, you feel abandoned (or have been) by her.
My intuition tells me it’s your mom so I’ll continue from there. You describe feminine items in the house with dust. An area that hasn’t been tended to in awhile. She was willing to leave things and now care to come back and tend to them. This can represent both physical and emotional neglect. You mention tall ceilings. Do you feel like she projected an image/personality about herself that she is so far above you? Couldn’t live up to her expectations?
The lake/pond inside the house represents the womb. Where life is created. Where you once existed. Inside your mom, but you keep having to climb bookcases and walk through the old abandoned house trying to get to the lake (the place you were closest physically and emotionally to your mom). You are the one having to (or wanting to) make the effort and as soon as you get close to it, you wake up—maybe our of fear, protection for yourself.
Unresolved issues that your subconscious is asking you to deal with.
That’s my take on it. It’s a fascinating dream. Thanks for sharing it and for describing it so well.
ReplyThis goes to Harmony (the answer above-below)
Thank you so much for reading and responding to this and i must say, i'm blown away by your theory.
I understand what you're implying here by me having some issues with my mother and that's okay and totally acceptable, but i'll be honest with you. My relationship with her is wonderful and caring and although you say "my mom, a female caregiver, even me" i'm gonna have to say that it's me.(I'm a woman byt the way) In other words it couldn't be my mother because any issues that we've had, we've talked about them years ago. But i have to say, your thoughts are quite impressive and respect it. I appreciate your response deeply and either way, you've helped a lot because maybe instead of my mother, the house represents me and my way of thinking and doing, you know? But... I just don't get it. I guess it's an abandoned house because i'm a very nostalgic person and old, "dusted" things are something that attract me a lot.
Thank you Harmony
ReplyYou’re quite welcome and I’m happy to hear that I’ve helped you in any way. I truly believe we have all the answers inside our subconscious. We just have to figure ourselves out. Dreams can be wonderful allegories. For me, when I can’t decipher my dreams, I focus more on how they make me feel. That usually helps me to see what I’m trying to tell myself. Good luck to you; I hope you get to the bottom of it! 😊
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