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I don't really understand how this works...living on without you. It so weird waking up knowing I'm living another day and its like you're frozen in time.. I don't want you stuck in the time you were in..the feeling your were feeling that night...I hate that life was just so hard for you...its so weird looking at your pictures and hearing you talk..it just doesn't seem real..I don't get how losing a friend works....
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You grieve for as long as you need to and you remember the good times, what was special about your friend and eventually you will find that when you remember those things there will be less tears and more smiles.
You never get over losing someone who was important to you but you do learn to cope with the loss.
It's ok to be angry and to question why, it's all part of it
ReplyI do. When you realize they were not your friend in the first place.
That is why you don't want or need friends.
ReplyDude, you do need friends. Living without it just made your future not going anywhere further than what you actually capable of, just because you are afraid to lose them. Fact is; Friends come and go, we can't control them, they have their own life, like we all do. We had to admit that, and let it go, believe that you will find another one. With this experiences, you will able to find the right friend, maybe a partner in crime, soulmate or a lover. I know that you don't exactly leave someone who you trust that easily out from your heart, I know... but there's no point dragging that weight. Gotta break that chain, and find that adventure spirit again. You will love it.
To OP, I know that feels. I lose someone that is precious to me too. But trust me that, every person that comes into your life, will meet again in the end of time. You only lose someone in that short moment, even though it feels like forever, you need to learn the art of letting go. You can miss them, but life has to keep moving, think as it is for yourself. Believe that every painful situation, is a gift to be better you. My words may not be helpful, don't take it seriously as I only know one life experiences.... but I hope you will feel better soon, takes a lot of meditation and just breath. Have a nice day.
Replydo you know any good meditation apps or websites? Anything that will help with this loss?
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