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This actually sparked my attention.
Why would people want to deliberately ruin someone's life?
How important most their life be, that it could be useful in means to ruining their life on purpose?
What's the motive behind that?
Revenge?
Personal gain?
To hide the truth?
Keep a secret?
Steal what's not theirs?
What could possibly be a good enough reason to want to ruin someone's life INTENTIONALLY?
It is beyond me as to why some people would lie about whether someone has seriously done a horrible thing. Or if someone is actually innocent and done nothing bad but get wrongful accused.
Don't get me wrong, people who've actually done horrible things to people and they showed absolutely ZERO remorse for it. Should be the ones exposed and to get proper help.
It's all somewhat confusing but it shows this world has no mercy...
I still want to know why?
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Do you have an example? I think it's a very complex subject.
More often than not though hate breeds hate, violence breeds violence, and so on. Retaliation and revenge usually serve to continue the cycle of damaging behaviour.
ReplyAgree with this.
Hate breeds hate.
I will never why someone would intentionally ruin someone's life, unless there good reason for it.
There are reasons I believe I would hurt someone intentionally , thats because I have children and if someone hurt them (am not talking about insult or trivial hurt) but really hurt them then I guess I'd whatever it takes that the person or people know about it.
Some things just aren't that forgivable.
Where other things are Concerned I don't know how to answer the question.. Some people get hurt and all they want to do is help others so that they are feeling like they're helping the selves It hard to explain
Revenge is for the weak though.
There is nothing to gain
ReplyI can understand why someone would want to physically hurt someone else, for hurting another person physically. I don't believe it's justified. My ex had pushed me down the stairs once, out of anger and it did hurt me. Luckily, I didn't hurt myself too badly but I never turned around and did it back him. Besides, I wouldn't be able too as I am most certainly not strong enough against him. If that's what you're trying to say to give an excuse to hurt someone well to me, that's not good enough.
I rather have the law handle it then, getting my own hands dirty or tainted with blood.
ReplyWhat would you want me to give an example for exactly? A scenario of why someone would seek to ruin someone's life deliberately? Or something else?
I think it's not justified at all to purposely seek out to ruin someone's life permanently ,especially if they're not a bad person. I never acted out of revenge in my life like that. Maybe, petty little things like throwing words back in someones face, but nothing which would ruin someone's life. That's why I am asking these questions.
I do agree with you over the fact it creates a cycle of hate.
ReplyMore like an example of an action someone might carry out to ruin someones life. I was thinking maybe that might help me to think about what might cause someone to behave that way.
Personally I do think some people are just 'evil' in the sense that something about them is different from the rest of us and allows them to commit horrible acts without the remorse of a 'regular' person. But at the same time I also believe good people can be pushed into committing horrible acts such as murder, in a sort of perfect storm type of situation. It's all terrible complex though. I'm just thinking out loud ! : )
ReplySo, you mean if someone else did something wrong?
Alright, how about a man cheats on his wife once and fell in love with someone else. None of it was intentional but it happened. Is that still reasonable to ruin that man's life or the person the HE decided to cheat with and fell for?
What would you have to say for that?
People to me who have absolutely no remorse are psychopaths, sociopathys and horrible narcissists to me.
What would make a good person be pushed enough to commit a murder?
Please don't hesitate to elaborate more on that.
ReplyYou're too young.
ReplyDefine young?
ReplyP. S don't even know my age.
ReplyYoung as in life experience, not age related. But that's a good thing though a lucky thing too :)
ReplyCan you explain to me why you're telling me that I'm young in life experience and to what relevance is it meant by?
ReplySure, we are humans we're programmed to judge in others what we hate in ourselves. Only life and wisdom teaches that.
The strongest of all have been trough the roughest of times, the saddest of all smile the best. It is the weak and insecure that hurt others in order to gain whatever they fathom in it. So, my point I think I just made about being 'young' in this situation.. Based on questions in your post.
We point fingers at others sins because they sin differently , we quickly judge without understaning initially. We often forget we are doing exactly the same thing :) so Your intention , because of who I am , Im guessing is you wrote this post in order to understand ? with INTENTION to quench your curiosity ? And everyone and every situation being individual no one really has an answer to it. So I guess when I say you're 'lucky' is because you don't understand. But life will answer your question, it has a way of doing that.
ReplyI'm the kind of person who empathises , too much.
But from experience , anyone who "hurt someone" intentionally has asked the very same questions you ask in your post BEFORE doing the act.
Its not justified , in the society where you or I am... but in a country for example where a woman and a man should have no , absolute no contact - they are hung and stoned to death just for something trivial like being in the same room ... they are faced with death , because where they are that is justified that's their law and their justice.
so its a wide subject.
Why would anyone hurt anyone in the first place?
ReplyIT is like devils advocate here
Out of curiosity , what's your position in this ?
ReplyWhat do you mean by devils advocate?
I don't understand what you meant by position in this?
I'm like you, curious to know why and what the hell is wrong with some people.
ReplyThat was my point ... haha
yeah , urm, sorry. No idea what I mean :)
ReplyRight, still haven't answered my previous question on what makes it justified to physically hurt someone else back?
ReplyWho said it justified. I only said understand if someone killed a child --- the parent would WANT to hurt the person back... whethertheydo or not who knows , but I get it I never said its justified ?
ReplyYou mentioned about if someone would physically hurt your child, you would do whatever it takes to "let them and everyone else know about it".
I think of that as passive aggressive revenge. To be going around and telling everyone about your business.
It's understandable but it's takes extreme circumstances.
I brought up an example of someone I cared about, hurting me physically and I didn't retaliate by physically hurting the person back.
Didn't even tell people until much later on when I had enough.
Anyways...
ReplyHope that answers your question.
ReplyGod knows I have an overactive conscious so not sure how some can live with themselves. They are more jacked than I am is the answer. And some dont live with it so well. There ARE side affects.
ReplyWell lets just hope we don't have to walk in their shoes, sometimes I'm curious too but to really understand people and intent and situation we must first go through it. So maybe, curiosity is sometimes not the right way to go. Remember what it did to the cat? sorry that's a bad joke.
Have a nice day
ReplyLive with what so well? Being screwed up. The thing is, you can be screwed up in some ways but doesn't give you an excuse to be a deliberate a**hole. Unless, you have serious mental health problems and need to be in a psychiatric institution.
ReplyIt has nothing to do with cheating .
ReplyYou think only people with 'mental health' would deliberately hurt someone , 8/10 of those cases wouldn't put anyone else what they're going through. Evil thrives in the undiagnosed. Take a 'normal' person and make them angry - you'd wish you we're never born once their true colours show. don't be concerned about people who are open about their illnesses worry about those who think they have no mental issues at all ;
ReplyI would never physically harm anyone unless it was self defense ....I would also defend my family at all cost.
ReplyNaturally.
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