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Trying to break comfort zones

1 year ago · 2 · Need Advice, +2


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Recently I’ve been trying to go around the internet and join discord servers and talk to new people. I don’t know why it’s always such an issue for me to just say something to anyone but, I really have been trying to push myself to break my comfort zone. Though, it’s not working since I just listen and stay silent. I really want to be able to be social and talk to people with ease, but it’s just, difficult, half of the time I don’t know why I’m so scared. I just,, want to be able to talk to someone with out being a mess.

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  • shadowsandthoughts · 1 year ago

    I know how you feel and unfortunately that’s going to take time because you can’t just learn how to be comfortable while talking to people. Don’t stress yourself out too much. Start small and then evolve your strategies until you’re able to talk to someone with ease face to face. You can do it. I believe in you.

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  • Novni Guest · 1 year ago

    #metoo

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