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just a vent i suppose, but i for sure need some help -
i’m so tired of feeling this rejection. i honestly don’t mind being single; then again of course i miss being in love and sharing that with someone, but i can be content being single. but what hurts me the most is when i find myself slowly liking someone more than just a friend, and then something derails said plans. for example, on valentine’s day, i had an amazing date with a guy that i’ve been seeing for a while. he finally pops the question if i see this going somewhere long term and romantically. i enthusiastically say yes, and he responds with “i want to pursue you exclusively too because i really like you. but i’m moving away in a few months, so i can’t.”
so, why attempt to pursue me in the first place? i’ve had this happen to me so many times, and it just makes me so so sad. i know that this is just the universe throwing curve balls at me until i meet “the one” but damn, it still stings with every curve ball.
please please please help, i’m starting to lose so much hope in ever falling in love again. i know it sounds sad and pathetic but i just can’t seem to find any good support, advice, or good places to meet good guys with the same interests as me, and if i post about this anywhere i just receive comments from trolls who leave mean, snarky messages that make me feel even worse.
advice? anything helps!
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Why is he moving away?
Replyhe’s finishing his degree and getting a job in another city
ReplyI understand what you mean, i've been there too and i'm still having 'love and emotion-related issues' and it sucks..
But being in a relationship isn't a necessity, you should try developing and improving yourself day by day, and grow. Go back to doing something you used to enjoy once, work on your hobbies, improve your skills, learn something new, find answers to all the philosophical religious questions in your head, go out with friends, and spend time alone. Try distracting yourself from this thought that you just HAVE to be in a relationship and JUST start being in a relationship with yourself, it's lit, i promise. Most people want to jump right into a relationship because they're scared to be lonely. Do not be afraid of being alone and loneliness, spend time alone and explore and get to know yourself better. Ask yourself, do i want to share my life with someone from fear of being all alone or do i want to spend every moment cherishing them and the memories and growing together?
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