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What do you do... When she leaves you because you're "a good man"? What do you say when her parting words are that you were "kind", "beautiful", and "You really were the best boyfriend ever". These are the words I've heard with the most recent breakups I've had... I have to ask what the hell does it mean when your genuine care is likely the hand on the very knife thrust into your heart. Is this world becoming so dark that treating her like an asshole would have made her stay?
Why does it seem that this world has turned compassion into an undesirable risk too great to take? Above all I wonder what other men have heard the words that I have heard. And to those men, with genuine hearts and deep convictions... All I have is a word of encouragement. You are not alone. I am here. I am with you in this pit of uncertainty. I acknowledge that your heart is worth all of the pain and rejection you've felt. I encourage you to love unceasingly into an often loveless void, for without you... Without us... We are all truly lost.
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ReplyThanks for responding... This is the general consensus I've managed to get from the people who said these things. As a peek into the mind, and the heart, This is what I find myself going through over and over...
You say that your boyfriend could have anyone... You say that he is "free" to choose and have the world at his fingertips. But that would require someone else having the desire to accept him. His choice... for lack of a better way of wording it is "you".
I'm no better than anyone else... Humans are flawed creatures, self included. I don't expect perfection or an equally "good" partner... All I really want is someone who genuinely wants me back. Perhaps I'm misguided or the true reasons were simply too embarrassing to share... But it feels wrong to be left for trying to do the right things
ReplyIll send you a virtual hug.
I can understand you are hurt and it will definitely take time to get over everything. You feel wronged and that is normal after all youve done. You did well, you did what you could. I personally dont know what to say because stuff happens that we sometimes cant find the reason to even though it effects us a lot.
All i can offer is as wish for happiness for you. Sorry and please dont change because there will be someone who appreciates you and stay by you. I know you feel wronged and I cant really do much about it but offer some support.
Lol im not much help cuz im honestly a mess myself XD thank you for your input on my situation though.
ReplyWhy delete my post? You don't want to hear truth?
ReplyAnyone can have anyone.
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